Boyfriend is forcing to have sex with him

[geeta525]

my boyfriend and I are in physical relationship from the last one year,we have done oral and regular sex
all the time. Now due to some personal reasons I don't want to do vaginal sex with him although i do oral and
normal sex with him touching licking the body but he is still unsatisfied and always forcing me to have vaginal sex with him, he emotionally blackmails me that I don't love him thats y I m not doing that, he gets aggressive and doesn't talk to me if I don't do the same as asked by him.What should I do to maintain the relationship with him?

[SincerelyYoursT]

Boys under 25 (im assuming)… Typical- let me guess, he also doesnt ever give you orgasms (maybe some fake ones)…
Dont let him pressure you into anything you dont want to do… even oral.
You should know that he is most likely not going to quit trying… its not even completely about disrespecting you (even though it does)… I hate to say it, but chances are he will satisfy the urge one way or another.
I know more than I would like about boyfriends like this… I hope I'm wrong, but from my experience this ends badly… If you know your never going to have sex with him, you should stop leading him and let the pieces fall as they may… If this is anything like my experiences, the more he pressures you, the more you dont want it. You feel obligated to do oral, etc. He doesnt satisfy you… all of which make you less comfortable with having sex with him. With resentment & frustration mounting, this end up in 1 of several ways:
Either….
…you finally give in and pretend to enjoy it.
…you have a real conversation about how his ways are turning you off and hope that if he changes his ways you will want to do it...
… he cheats on you til you catch him
…one of you break-up with the other

I hope im wrong… but so many younger guys do not appreciate intimacy (or women)…

Sex is not a favor we do for our boyfriends… It is a privilege we allow them when they deserve it… and that's how it should be perceived and treated by men and women.

I know breaking it off is not a realistic option (if your anything like I was…), but you dont have to 'take one for the team'.

Good luck

[alexin7]

I don't know enough about your situation to say for certain, but I think that if he loved you, he would only want whatever sex that YOU want. He would want sex to be about making you happy (rather than just himself). It sounds like he is using you for sex. I would suggest that you don't be in a relationship with someone who doesn't really love you. It's easy to let your whole life go by with the wrong person if you don't do something about it.

[NOHARD]

Hi Geeta, You should never be forced into something you do want to do, and it does not matter which way he trys to put it, just remember its your body and not his to play with as a sex toy.
My advince if this is the he is treating you, its toss a coin time, you either stay or walk, your not his toy, your a human being, and need to treated that way.
Good Luck