I can recall at a very young age that I was very cautious with kissing a girl and exchanging saliva. Sex education did confirm you can catch syphillis that way, LOL.
But I kiss so many girls (not with a whole lot of tongue though) that I know its not likely you will catch a std that way.
Also its good he's cautious minded that way so he don't make so many dumb mistakes with women.
So I applaud him in a sense but at the same time once he loses his virginity he's gonna buckwild just like any other man.
Damn sooooo true but geesh is he kinda freakishly cautious or is it me?
LOL, he still young minded. Once he get his first peice of p***y, he won't think this way no more...
look either **** or get off the pot your problem seems surface and has me wondering if there is something deeper you are not being forthcoming about. open up and share. Your chances of hurting yourself are higher every time you drive...so why the sexual caution
You will never have a girlfriend thinking that way. Either practice abstinence or safe sex. It's one or the other. I doubt if you catch anything from kissing and if you do you just have bad luck.
Basically an inner conflict, I'd say. On the one hand I want to have intimacy but on the other hand I am extremely cautious of even giving a kiss on the cheek or touching a woman to avoid diseases.
That goes back and forth. Sometimes I reach the point where I am almost ready to get in touch with women, until the other side kicks in and tells me to avoid any contact.
So what exactly is the problem? Are you saying that you don't want to have sex because of the risk of std's and pregnancy so you try to avoid being around women but when you do your sexual desires arises?
I need to find a solution here, this problem is haunting me for years now. Should I look for a way to get rid of sexual desires, e.g. by using medicine?