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dull orgasm

hi everyone. im a 25 year old male and i am in a loveing relationship for over two years with a beautiful 1year old boy. for the last two months my orgasms have been geting duller and duller. they use to be out of this world but now they are like a sneeze. this happens with sex and masterbation. nothing in my life has changed and i dont have anything on my mind. i also find it hard to sleep. this is really getting me down its like im left feeling frustrated after sex. and sometimes i dont orgasm at all. please helf. thank you for your time
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Hmmm... I’m wondering if you’re going thru any kind of stress in your life? You mentioned trouble sleeping, which could be stress-related, and both stress & lack of sleep could affect your sexual functioning.

I would also recommend a visit to the Dr - you can start w/ your reg GP, see what he/ she thinks, prbly would want to run some tests. Also, prostate issues can affect sexual functioning. Even if you don’t have significant symptoms, such as a weaker urine stream, incomplete bladder emptying, waking at night to pee, etc., Prostatitis can cause dull orgasms, so the Dr will prbly want to check your prostate. If your reg Dr isn’t able to help, it might be helpful to seek out a good Urologist who deals with these types of prblms...

Good luck to you & let us know what’s found & how you’re doing.
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I found that products containing tea tree oil have this effect on my orgasms. Quit all products topical or internal that contain lavender or tea tree oil. Takes a couple months to return to normal. Also masturbate as little as possible and be careful of the contents of any lubricant you use.
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That's interesting.  How did you figure that out?
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eh sorry everyone but my last comment i meant im in a relationship with a woman and have a one year old son.
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