- Male
- 105lbs, 5'7" (generic, perfectly healthy)
- 30 year old
- Complaint duration: since January 2016
- Medication: only 1.25mg of finasteride daily (since August 2017)
Up until January 2016, I had a perfectly normal libido. Strong morning wood, all good. All of a sudden, it just vanished, and I also stopped getting morning wood. NOT a gradual process, but really, from one day to another, it was gone. I won't go into details, but I will mention that the day before this happened, I had a "traumatic" experience that lasted only one day.
However, I did not dwell on it and was mentally fine a few days later. I haven't even thought about it since then. In fact, when I think about it now, I just laugh at myself for being so concerned and feeling "traumatized." Nothing too serious, but an incident combined with other personal issues probably made it one of the worst (if not the worst) day of my life. That's how it felt... at that time!
Ever since that day, libido has been very low. I went to different doctors (2016, 2017 and 2018). All blood tests (testo, estrogen, etc, everything) are fine. I can post the results. Also, no STDs.
Another thing, I might have suffered from a (very) mild depression in 2016, I might have had some anxiety. At night when I would wake up, my mind would be very active and I would be stressed out for nothing (not related to the incidence, just felt that I wasn't making any process in life, no job, can't find work, etc). 2017 and until now, I (strongly) believe that mentally, I'm almost perfectly fine!
My doctor referred me to an urologist (on a waiting list), and says I should see a sexologist. I know he thinks it's a psychological issue, but I'm not unhappy, sad, suicidal or any of these things. Is it possible that that the incident I experienced back 2016 somehow "rewired" me or did something to me that needs to be fixed? Would sexologist be able to fix it (again, I'm not depressed).
*** Sexually, this is only a very low libido issue (no desire). Barely any desire thoughout the day and night. Barely any morning wood. No ED, no ejaculation issues, etc (just requires a lot of stimulation since there's barely any desire).
I've also been on finasteride since August 2017. I know low libido is a side effect, but I will tell you, I haven't noticed any difference. Libido was temporary high only the first week when I started finasteride (normal side effect of finasteride, T levels go back to normal). Temporary high... Suggests that it's not psychological?