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ERECTION MISERY

I am a 42 year old disabled man, with plenty of feeling in my penis.  The accident I had which made me disabled did injure my genitals at the time but didnt cause permanent damage and I get the usual sexual urges, wake up with an erection so have to masturbate.  

For the past 3 months though just as I get to the point where I am about to ejaculate, I suddenly lose my erection!  I am then so desperate for relief but unable to so it drives me crazy. My balls then ache badly for hours, I am extremely frustrated, unable to sleep if this happens in the night.  Guarantied I then get another erection which sometimes doesn't go down for hours, even when masturbating and still unable to release my fluids, I sometimes get to the point where I want to pass out.  When my erection persists for hours, it's obviously impossible for me to urinate for my disability reason and erection.

I have not been able to ejaculate now for 3 months, just at the frantic point when I need to release I go soft and end up almost in tears or passing out.

Any advice please this is killing me, its also acutely embarrassing.
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I never gave the profile a thought when I signed up, was more concerned about my condition!  Never signed up on one of these before so not that good with them lol, I will see if I can change it to male.

Thanks.

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why does your profile say female? You need to see a Urologist nothing to be embarrassed
about!!
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I'm really embarrassed to see a doctor but I will have to, just wanted to know if any other bloke on here has a similar problem.

I really am dying for relief now.
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You probably need to speak with a doctor,they'd be able to give you the right advice.hopefully it can be sorted out,Good Luck

Denise
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