I am a 42 year old disabled man, with plenty of feeling in my penis. The accident I had which made me disabled did injure my genitals at the time but didnt cause permanent damage and I get the usual sexual urges, wake up with an erection so have to masturbate.
For the past 3 months though just as I get to the point where I am about to ejaculate, I suddenly lose my erection! I am then so desperate for relief but unable to so it drives me crazy. My balls then ache badly for hours, I am extremely frustrated, unable to sleep if this happens in the night. Guarantied I then get another erection which sometimes doesn't go down for hours, even when masturbating and still unable to release my fluids, I sometimes get to the point where I want to pass out. When my erection persists for hours, it's obviously impossible for me to urinate for my disability reason and erection.
I have not been able to ejaculate now for 3 months, just at the frantic point when I need to release I go soft and end up almost in tears or passing out.
Any advice please this is killing me, its also acutely embarrassing.