Hi,
this is my first post here, so it might be long.
My husband an I are having huge problem. About two years ago my husband developed ED literally in one night. He lost erection during sex and could not get it back for about two months. Many say that it happens to everyone, and we thought so too, that loss of erection is just a fluke. But after a week my husband began to panic. He could not get erection at all, even with masturbation. So he went to doctor. He was diagnosed with hypogonadism. Doctor's advice was - diet and sport or testosterone shots. We decided to up testosterone levels naturally first. To our relieve, after 2 month on strict diet our sex life became as good as it was before. So we thought that T levels became normal and everything is good. Imagine our shock when after four months of good sex, ED came back and it brought "friends" with it. In 2 weeks my husband developed severe ED, PE, lack of orgasmic sensation and absence of libido. So, back to doctor he went. His blood work showed that he is very low on testosterone. Doctor inserted Testopel pills. First six weeks on it were pure nightmare. My husband did not get ANY of original symptoms cured, AND he developed new ones. He had anxiety, panic attacks, palpitations, insomnia, horrible nightmares (when he managed to fall asleep), mood swings. He went back to urologist, but got "I never had patients with reaction like yours, it's all in your head" and "go see the sex therapist. Your levels are fine"
In about two month after insertion, ED and all panic attacks, insomnia etc. went away, but the rest of symptoms did not. He had no sex drive, no orgasm, our sex was literally 30 seconds before he ejaculated.
After Testopel wore off, we started looking at other therapies. My husband went to 3 uros, 2 endos, age clinic, hormone therapy guru, psychiatrist, general physician. He's done MRI, penile ultrasound - you name it. He is scheduled to see a neurologist. He tried to restart testosterone production, he tried an HCG therapy, which basically tells testicles to work more and produce testosterone. All produced NO relieve.
He tried injections (cypionate, propionate, HCG and all possible combinations of three), gel, Testopel. He changed dose and injections frequency. He tried every male enhancement herb possible. Vitamins, teas, pills. He even did genetic testing.
The worst thing is - he developed ED again, which would not go away for 7 months now. And also a new symptom - his penis started to shrink. The same uro that "did not have any patients that had severe side effects", said "your penis looks fine to me - go see a shrink. Here is viagra coupon".
My husband's other hormones are fine. His comprehensive blood work shows that he is as healthy as a horse. All levels of every stinking measurement are right in the middle of range. Thyroids are fine, testosterone is in upper 600s, metabolic tests - good, insulin - great, cholesterol - went down. But all symptoms are still THERE. He has no libido, PE, ED, no orgasmic sensation - no improvements at all. This is breaking him, our family.
Any guys with the same or maybe some of the problems? Do you have any advice where to look? Which doctor to go to?
It really ***** that treatment that is designed to cure sexual problem does exactly opposite to my husband. He is now in deeper s#$& than when he just started testosterone therapy. Any, even the craziest idea will be a big help now......