Erection problem

[eshibab]

Hi,

My name is babu and I am 31 years old. recently Last year in december I have got married. Now I found that I have problem with erection and I think for that reason I can not give more time to my partner when do the intercourse. could you please give me some tips how i can recover with this problem.

Best Regards
Babu

[eshibab]

Thanks for your suggestion, I will try to quite smoking asap. Could you please tell me do i need to take cialis eveyday or once a week because its 20mg and i think this is more powerfull.

any other suggestion would be good for me.
Thank you so much  

[frankj93]

If I were you I would stop smoking and get in shape. Ive read online that smoking interferes with both your sex drive and your sexual performance.

When you are young, early to mid 20s, it wont really matter. But as your body ages, you need to stay in better shape and live healthier if you want to maintain your sex life.

When I took cialis I had no loss in sex drive, actually it seemed to make it higher because I could have sex quite easily the 2nd time and sometimes a 3rd in one day.

One thing I use to monitor my overall health is morning erections. When I am healthy, for instance I dont have a cold, and I am sleeping well. I always wake up with a huge erection, like rock hard. Ive noticed that if I am overworking at the office, not sleeping as well, or have a cold or flu, I stop getting them.

If you are getting morning erections, you should not need Cialis, but if you are not, I would suggest only using Cialis until you get yourself back in shape, as you are to young to truly need it.

[eshibab]

Hi frankj93,
Thanks for your reply. I am not over weight but almost there. lol I am 175 CM and 75 KG. And I smoke but not drink any alcohol. Its happened slowly not suddenly, and problem is when i want to sex and tried to erected then i could not. Some times it ereacted then i inject in middle I have loss ereaction during intercourse. I have tried one cialis 20mg last week. This one worked fine but in mentally or physically I am not sure but i have also loss interest to sex. May be this is one side effect for cialis I am not sure, you know better than me. For that reason I have stoped cialis just took one.
This week I try to do some exercise.

Help help me with this issue.

[frankj93]

To help the problem you need to give us more data. Are you overweight? Do you smoke? Whats your diet and exercise like? Are you on drugs for mental problems? Did it start suddenly?

I believe most sexual issues are related to physical condition, and overall health. If you rule those issues out, there is still the mental factor.

I went through a period of about 6 months to a year in my 30s where I everything was perfect physically, but mental issues ruined my sex life. It all started when I was quite drunk and lost my erection. It was very embarrassing, and I started having anxiety that it would happen again. Sure enough it got worse and worse because I believed it would. I ended up taking some Cialis and that stuff made me rock hard if the wind blew. Literally I would take it and see a cute girl in a mini skirt and I would get so hard I would have to go somewhere and hide, lol.

After using it for about 6 months, I forgot to take it and everything worked 100% so I discontinued using it. Is been 5+ years and Ive never had an issue, so clearly it was all in my mind.

So first rule out physical issues, then if thats all 100% you need to diagnose whats going on in your head.