In a missionary position, if your husband leans on you and touches your left shoulder, with his right shoulder, he is rubbing your clitoris. Change the shoulders and try. This may take some practice. or he may stimulate your clitoriris with his fingers mildly. It should be a mild stimulation as clitoris is very sensitive and need a mild stimulation. Strong will reduce your response. You may find different postures to stimulate clitoris.Other is stimulation of g spot. It is at 10 o clock position in the vagina, 2 inch deep if you imagine 12 o clock at the top side of vagina. Your have to make your hubby to make these effort.
You have to know your own body and what you like. Where you enjoy being touched, how much foreplay you like, what positions you enjoy the most.
Many women can not have an orgasm with intercourse alone. They need clitoral stimulation. If you're not quite sure where yours is you can research, woman's anatomy.
Take a night for just you and your husband. Tell him you would like to try some different things. This is only if you and he do the same things most of the time. Remember to do your research so you'll know where a woman's clitoris is. Your husband can use a finger or oral for stimulation. Make sure he's gentle because some men don't realize how sensitive a woman is.
I hope this helps and if I can be of any more help let me know.
I've actually heard some we mom have ALOT of problems with this. I never had one ever sex was just simply sex to me until I met my husband. (But Apprently my hubby is biggggg) And with us it was not only very sexy but it was emotionally uplifting. Was your sex life spicy? Did he try to .. For lack of better words try to please you n only you? But if this isn't to personal are you on any medications? Because that really can have a chemical imbalance and make it nearly impossible!