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How do you use that beads?

Ok...when I go to the adult stores. I seen all these beads for women. How do you use those? Is the guys turn on, on this toys? Also, is there something wrong if you want to get hurt while foreplay? Its normal right? Please tell me. I'm not a freak.
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there are actual vaginal beads not just the ben wa balls
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372900 tn?1315512302
Hmmmm.  I did not know that.  I've only heard about them.
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Actual the vaginal that you are talking about are generally called Ben Wa balls
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There's anal beads and vaginal beads.  Anal you insert in your anus and pull out.  DON'T use these in your vagina if you've used them in your anus.  You are asking for a lot of trouble if you do (meaning infections).  I have heard of women who use vaginal beads during the day.  They insert them in the am and then take them out at night.  It's supposed to give you an o while you are at work, running errands, etc.  I think you can use them too when you are doing kegels to help tighten up your vaginal muscles.  As for the beads on the vibrator, the most well known one is The Rabbit.  They spin with the push of a button.  So it's all up to you and what your pleasure is.

As for pain, it's one thing to like to be tied up, spanked, etc.  If you are into real pain (i.e. slapping, hitting, cigarette burns, etc.) then that's a whole different story.  IMHO someone who is into the latter has some deep rooted issues and should seek counseling.
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I'm not into it myself, but if your into pain or discomfort and trust your partner. (which means somewhat submissive I take it?) you need to arrange a safeword that if you use means STOP and it means immediately.  The downside of being a masochist though is by definition your ideal partner has to be somewhat of a sadist.

How much hurt exactly are you talking about hear?  biting, beating, "Chips, dips, chains and whips"
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973669 tn?1247961962
just dont let the guy disrespect you.  A slap on the behind is okay but dont let him get carried away.
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there probaly anal beads which are used to be inserted into the anus and pulled out or left in while getting penetrated in the vagina , Used to represent double impact.
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Actually more than two....
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No slapping in the face, nothing like that. Something like tossed you around and slap you from the behind. Yeah, I just need suggestions on what to buy. Kim1989 mentioned there's two different things. WOW I didn't know there's options. Thanks guys for the response.
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do you mean anal beads or beads found on vibrators?
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Well form what I know the beads are for anal insertions. I don't know if they are pleasurable or not. But you insert them into your anal cavity and pull them out. I think you can also use them for your vagina also.

Toys can be a lot of fun but I have never wanted to try beads with my wife, we stick to the common stuff like dildos, vibrators, handcuffs, blindfolds...things like that.

What do you mean hurt? Please describe what you are thinking.
Some people like a little pain but if your talking about being slapped in the face then that is a little extreme.
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