How can I find a gay or gay-friendly doctor about an anal issue? I would really like to find one in the Kansas City area, but I may be able to travel if it's the right doctor.
I'm looking for ways (non-surgical or surgical) to increase anal tone. I had surgery for a fistula 15+ years ago and I don't believe it ever healed probably. Based on scarring I think there was actually two, but I don't recall as I was so nervous and embarrassed about the whole ordeal at the time. Due to another issue I'm finding my anal tone is decreasing and exercises aren't helping.