I suggest you both get tested for STDs and AIDS so condoms and other protection are not necessary. If they cant wait a week to have sex they are not worth having sex with.
I had a man object to a condom because he said he was clean (I am) and his excuse was how would he be protected during oral sex.
Oh and HIV related questions need to be posted in the HIV forum.
You are a female, if you don't have HIV why are you concerned about protecting a male from something you don't have?