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Husband not suck vagina

Hi, I married 7yrs old. My husband not touch or lick my vagina until now. I ask him for lick vagina. He said no I didn't.  please help me!
Is there any reason?
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Yeah, I agree - communication is important for a good sex life for both of you.

He may have reasons why he's not comfortable with it, some that you can address, or not. Then you have to decide what to do from there.

If you're giving him oral sex, though, he should at least try for you unless he has some significant reasons why he won't.
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As stated, you'll have to ask him why he doesn't want to.

In the meantime, I suggest wearing loose clothing (no tights/yoga pants), eat a very healthy diet, drink water only and shower before sex. This might help reduce odor and bad tastes. Shaving/waxing will also make your privates more inviting for that activity.
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Some of this isn't true, and is very subjective.

Tight clothing can contribute to yeast infections for some women, but if a woman wears tight clothing or tights, or yoga pants, it doesn't mean she has an odor or a bad taste. Some women can get yeast infections wearing the loosest, airiest, lightest clothing.

If a woman has a bad odor, it usually indicates an infection, like yeast or bacterial vaginitis/vaginosis. Showering won't help that. Cleanliness is appreciated by everyone, of course, but most women clean themselves.

Shaving and waxing is largely cultural, and in many cultures, women don't do this.

Also, if he would like her to shave or wax, it might be nice if he reciprocates. Just sayin'.
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Gee, just saw this.  I don't personally believe any woman should shave there, as the hair your born with is nice and soft and quite attractive, but the hair after shaving is brittle and scratches so you're then condemned to shaving regularly.  This is what happens when women shave their legs and their underarms.  If you've ever known a woman who grew up where they don't do this, the hair is soft and feels really good.  Just sayin'.  But as to men shaving, what point would there be to that?  I mean, there's no hair on the part of the man that goes inside, you know?  But again, I just don't get the appeal of the shaving down there so I guess I'm just old.  But the tight clothes is a real thing, depending on what they're made of.  Those yoga pants are almost all made of petroleum, and while gym shorts or running shorts made of petroleum won't be tight enough to bother anyone, those yoga pants are dangerous.  Not to mention, the freer or clothing you are the freer the movement which would seem especially important when working out.  Those who treat repeat yeast infections in natural medicine counsel even going without underwear, as oxygen kills the stuff.  And lots of women have smells down there who don't have infections.  I find it more often in women who are not thin.  Don't know the reason.  Peace.
My point about men grooming was mostly to say that if they want women to do it, they should do it, too. No reason for it, just as there's no real reason for women to do it.

Synthetic materials are the enemy, for sure. Even if the clothing is loose, synthetic underwear is problematic.

Women have smells. Men do, too. None of us smell clean and fresh all the time - that's normal. If a quick clean up doesn't help, it's a sign that something isn't right. We (women) might not smell like a fresh lavender field, but some musky smells are natural.

Lavender, yuck.  But I will just say, I have had relationships with women who do smell bad down there and have no health problems that any doctor found.  Sometimes it's just all the bad stuff that comes with aging and the dryness that often accompanies that, but again, I've had relationships with thin women and with heavier or fleshier women and it's the latter that usually have the odor.  Again, I can't explain it, and it's never been a deal breaker for me, but it's not always a health problem or at least not one that anyone can find.  I think it's like farts or breath -- sometimes people stink and sometimes they don't and I'm sure there is a reason but I'm not sure it's always a reason worth exploring too much because too much doctor involvement in life can lead to a ton of problems.  I'm sure it might be diet, might be any number of things, but if you can't explain it you can't do anything about it and if you're feeling fine and life is going well you just don't do anything about it.  Peace.
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You'll have to ask him.  If this is something you'd like him to do then you need to ask him why he won't.   Be prepared.  He may tell you that you have an odor and a taste.  Then you can talk to your doctor about that if it is odor as the issue as bacteria can be the cause.   And some men just aren't that into it but you can tell him you'd like it so he needs to try.  Compromise in your sex life together is important.
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