I can only have an orgasm on top

[mandykat]

I'm a healthy 24 year old female and I have always only been able to have an orgasm on top. The man I'm dating now gave me my first orgasm in a few different positions a few months ago but now it doesn't happen anymore. I am able to orgasm using a vibrator during sex and when I masterbate with clitoral stimulation. I feel bad for him because he thinks he isn't doing it right, it still feels good, I just don't get off. I would absolutely love to, but I was just wondering if it was mind over matter or what, because I have been this way since I became sexually active.

[Blue08]

agreed to you....
my women is lucky and she always get it with g spot... i never had to rub clitors by hand.. plus she orgasim 3 or 4 times in 45 minutes to one hour...

[mami1323]

Men don't understand this and always feel bad if they can't make a woman orgasm with just their penis.  I know that a lot of women can only have orgasms (me included) if their clitoris is being stimulated simultaneously.  So don't think that there is anything wrong with that.  There are some women who are lucky enough that they can have an orgasm with the g-spot being hit but I was never one of those lucky ones.  So after many talks, my fiance finally got this and didn't get offended by it.  There are some positions that you can actually rub your clitoris on him so that you can have it stimulated.  Explain to him that the clitoris is a sort of small penis and needs to be treated as such.  Maybe he will understand it then, if not give him statistics.