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I can’t get off while masterbating without having a incest fantasy.

It could be a father or a brother. (It’s never my own family.. I don’t even have a brother) it could be a fantasy of them just touching me or treating me like a flesh light. I just want to know why? I know I’m not the only person to have these thoughts, some people even think about their own family. I do not. In my head it’s always men without faces but ones older than the other. Is it a lack of security and I’m searching for it? Is it self hatred? I just want to know psychologically what causes these thoughts. I’m not bothered by them cause it’s purely fantasy. Imagination if you will. This is a private fantasy not a fantasy I share with my boyfriend. Just someone with a degree answer this question.. or someone with insight of how the human brain works..
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You certainly aren't alone - incest porn is a whole category because there is demand for it. (For those reading - it's not actual incest, it's actors playing relatives.)

You aren't bothered by this, but my only question would be is if you've ever been able to orgasm without this particular fantasy, and is this new, or did you discover this around the same time you started masturbating, so it's essentially been the theme, so to speak?

I don't know that there's anything actually wrong with you for fantasizing about this. You know it's just fantasy, you aren't trying to get with family members, and you don't even have a brother. Do you feel like you are insecure or don't like yourself? It might be a wish to give up some power, or maybe not. Only you can answer that question. Sometimes fantasy is just fantasy.

These may help:

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/sexual-fantasies

https://www.cnn.com/2018/07/24/health/sex-fantasies-kerner/index.html

https://metro.co.uk/2017/09/01/lets-talk-about-the-last-taboo-incest-6895569/

(I mean, these are just 3 articles on it out of millions - you aren't alone.)

My only concern here is that you can't orgasm without this fantasy. It may be a phase - maybe in a few months you'll move onto group sex as a fantasy, or something else, so maybe try broadening your horizons, or expanding on what this means to you.
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I have a similar I have to do ice and put on my sister knickers rubbing my self like a girl
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