I get mad horny when not ejaculating for a long period of time

[anordinarydude]

Is it normal that if I don't ejaculate for more than a few weeks I become very horny? It almost changes my personality and desires. I am ready to do things I would not do normally. For example I am very anti-social, I only speak with close family and don't want to speak with anyone else. When I get horny I want to socialize with women to find a partner and ready to travel to another city to see her. Is it normal or is it some pathology?

[auntiejessi]

When you say ejaculate, do you mean have sex, or do you mean even ejaculate by masturbation?

Is it just an urge, or a compulsion? What happens if you don't find an outlet? Can you just masturbate?

A few weeks isn't a long time, medically or socially. Do you think this could be psychological? While the experience of sex and masturbation are very different, a lot of the same hormones are released, so masturbation should help ease some of those feelings.

Do you do anything harmful, to yourself or anyone else, if you don't get to have sex?

[anordinarydude]

When I mean ejaculate I mean ejaculate no matter how. It can be sex or masturbation. When I don't get it I become very horny and constantly think abut sex when not busy with something(even though sometimes when busy as well) I doubt it's psychological and I don't think I can do harm if I don't have sex

[Paxiled]

Different people have different levels of horniness, and if you're a young man, well, I think some study or other concluded most men think about sex every few minutes or something like that, so it is what it is.  When I was young I got really horny too whereas I had friends who never had sex or had an urge to have sex in any way.  That's baseball.  If you're really horny, masturbate.  Don't look for strange women who might give you a disease.  And when you're going through a really horny phase of your life, if you do get in relationships get in one with a woman who is also really horny or the mismatch will be a problem.  As you age this should go away.  Now, some people confuse horniness with a desire to have the escape of sex, whether it's by masturbating or with another person.  In that case, you have to figure out just what it is you're trying to escape from.

[anordinarydude]

I'm 21 and always had this problem. Usually I am not even close to being so horny as when I don't ejaculate for a long time

[Paxiled]

But obviously sometimes you are.  If you're hornier than you want to be, you'll need to work on that by training your mind to focus where you want it to focus, but if you really don't care if you're a horny guy sometimes again, that's baseball.  You're very young and do know this won't last.  In the meantime, you can either enjoy it and have lots of sex and masturbate a lot or try to ignore it enough that your mind stops thinking about it so often.