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I have a question about masturbation.

Hey... so I have a personal, embarrassing question. ***female masturbation***
I get in the climax from clitoris. I shake and it builds up and then I shake uncontrollably! I can’t seem to keep going. Idk if that’s normal or how to fix it...
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Hmmm... not really sure I understand your question. It sounds like you are able to achieve a very strong orgasm from clitoral stimulation, you say you shake uncontrollably, which I think is fairly normal during very powerful orgasms. What I don’t understand is your statement that you can’t seem to keep going -?? What exactly do you mean? Do you mean you have to stop stimulating yourself? I would think that’s somewhat normal as well - for many (if not MOST) females, the clitoris becomes hyper-sensitive immediately after orgasm & there’s no desire for additional stimulation at that point. I’m a guy & basically the same thing happens to my penis right after orgasm - I might enjoy add’l stimulation for a few seconds after orgasm/ejaculation, but then it becomes too sensitive & add’l stimulus at that point is uncomfortable. So if that’s what you’re talking about, I’d say that’s pretty normal. If that’s NOT what you meant, please elaborate, fill us in a bit more...
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Ah. It’s like I can feel the build up but then I must stop. Idk it’s strange
OK - so are you saying  you are not quite getting to the finish line? You’re not actually having an orgasm? The description of uncontrollable shaking sounds a lot like orgasm to me, but maybe you’re not feeling like it’s quite there yet - ???

One question (well, 2 really...) - 1) How old are you? And 2) How long have you been masturbating? It takes some women a little while to kinda ‘figure things out’ when they first start, and some don’t really reach their sexual peak until their 30s or even later.

Also, have you tried different techniques, like clitoral & vaginal stimulation with your fingers, using a dildo, of perhaps a vibrator, or even some combination of these things? Everyone’s a little different & what one person likes might not do a thing for someone else. Maybe keep experimenting with things till you find out very specifically exactly what you like...
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