Seriously.. I'm worried. I've never had sex before, but it's really swollen and red... and bleeding a little bit. It feels like it almost got ripped a little bit or something.. we had it only about 20 minutes ago, no lube, condom, but I get pretty wet.. so that's okay? Use lube next time? He also went a little rough, so does it sound normal? Will it go away in a few days? Any answers would be LOVED. Please help guys, I'm nervous.