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444265 tn?1292467473

Is vagina swelling/redness/soreness normal after first time sex?!?!

Seriously.. I'm worried.  I've never had sex before, but it's really swollen and red... and bleeding a little bit.  It feels like it almost got ripped a little bit or something.. we had it only about 20 minutes ago, no lube, condom, but I get pretty wet.. so that's okay?  Use lube next time?  He also went a little rough, so does it sound normal?  Will it go away in a few days?  Any answers would be LOVED.  Please help guys, I'm nervous.
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1378071 tn?1313420821
from my experience i wouldnt worry about anything things get rough i start feeling like that sometimes for a good hour or two.. maybe thats just me... the ripping part sounds normal bcz you've never had sex before your "cherry" popped and thats most likely why it hurt...

i hope this helps =)
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134578 tn?1693250592
You might be allergic to the condom.  What was it made of?  The other option is that it was your first time, and maybe it is normal.  Try a sitzbath or rest on a package of frozen peas wrapped in a towel, and see if the swelling calms down.
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