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my husband has been mastubating because we just dont have sex hardley anymore...i recently found a pair of his underwear with blood in it....i asked him why was there blood, he said when he masturbated he must have broken a blood vessel  CAN SOMEONE PLZ TELL ME IF THIS IS TRUE..i ask him if he had been with some? to me i feel that he was with someone that just had or going off her period. i have never heard of this before  CAN THIS ACTUALLY HAPPEN WHEN A MAN MASTRUBATE AFTER A LONG BUILD UP???????  HELP
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having the same problem. My boyfriend was supposed to cOme see me this December for my birthday and we keeP talking about how we are gonna make love on that special day. I dont know what to do because I bleed everytime I masturbate. I started bleeding like this about maybe a month or two ago. It is so embarrassing for me. I'm not putting my age because you all will flip out. But please give me some advice because I don't want to go to a doctor at this age. :/
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I'm actually kind of curious why she is concerned?  They don't have sex so he is masturbating?  Unless their is medical condition involved guys generally equate physical attention as the sign that your partner cares for you.  She probably has bigger problems coming down the pike.
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I think the best solution here is to take him to the Dr. all invistigation will be done and by the time you will know, what is happening.

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Its possible he has a medical problem such as kidney stones or bladder cancer, not necessarily adultery.  He needs to have it checked asap! Also I would say he could very easily bust a vessel in there doing that to himself if conditions present themselves. He needs to quit that and get with you instead....
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Have to say I have masturbated my penis with great vigor at times in my life, nearly ripped the darn thing of my body as  young guy I even forced it down the vacuum cleaner hose for something different, never any blood, guess anything is possible though.

I think maybe you feel a little worried ur sex relationship has diminished somewhat, your husband may masturbate but he may not be having a fling, I have been married 3 times sadly my first two wives came on strong with sex at first, after a while I had to masturbate myself because it got to making an appointment to have sex, I got sick of that rubbish and decided porn and masturbation was a lot less hastle, still never had sex with another woman while married.
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337492 tn?1212458836
Opps my last post was meant for you, not munroe!  :0)
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337492 tn?1212458836
Really?  I am interested...educate me....  Sorry then.  I have read alot on STD's and erectile functioning and never heard of a man bleeding when he masturbates.  
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hold up now. yes that CAN happen. its not very uncommon
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337492 tn?1212458836
I dont think so.  That is really odd, unless he has an STD.  Otherwise I would wonder why.  A man does not bleed from where he ejaculates.  Why are you not having sex with him anyhow?  
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I would ask this on the doctors forum. I think you would get a much better answer over there.
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