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Me daughter caught my girlfriend performing oral sex on me what do I say?

She told me she whtched the whole thing...
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I think we need a little more information before giving an answer. First of all, how old is your daughter? Children that are very young don’t really need a lot of detailed info on sexual matters. For example, if she’s 5, you just say this is something a man & a woman do together that feels good, but it’s not for you at your age. If she’s older, say early teens, she prbly has some idea what was going on. In that case you say I’m sorry you saw that, I’ll be more careful to ensurevprivacy next time, as this is smthg adults do but only in complete privacy.

Also, I think you should tell us what the circumstances were - I assume you were at home, right? Were you in the bedroom when this happened, or somewhere like the living room? If you were not in a more ‘private’ setting, like the bedroom, you should apologize & tell her we should not have been somewhere she could possibly see this. If you were in the bedroom & the door was closed (but not locked) & she barged in, tell her you need privacy & that she should knock before entering, and also that next time, you’ll lock the door.

Anyway, please provide more details, such as your daughter’s age, when & where this happened, etc., in order to give the best answer to your question.
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Yeah, all this. I agree with all of this.
Thx, auntiejessi, seems like we’re usually on the same page with this type of advice. Hopefully Throbiner 10 provides a few more details so we can give more specific advice. I would welcome any add’l input from you if you think I overlooked anything...
Nope, I don't have a thing to add. :)

We need more info.
Agree ! If he elaborates, I'll add something & if you in turn have anything to add, please do...
Depending on the circumstances, my daughter walked in on me and her dad and he was going down on me. Now our door was locked but unknown to us, the door didn't close all the way. So instead of knocking, she just walked in. She was 8 at the time and that was a difficult talk to do but we did it. My advice is 1 always make sure to have a working lock and two the door shuts all the way. Hopefully this was done all by pure accident like in my case.
Good advice.  I think walking in on parents is a universal them of grossness in movies at this point.  lol But it happens.  Parents usually do want to avoid that awkwardness. thanks for sharing your advice and story
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