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My boyfriend likes shemales does that make him gay?
Hi, I recently learned that my boyfriend is into shemale porn and it freaks me out! He keeps denying that hes into that stuff, but i've seen that **** on his phone on several occasions. It makes me wonder if he's gay or bisexual and it also makes me wonder if he imagines me with a penis while were having sex. And i know that sounds funny, but it's really really bothering me. I also had the thought that he might leave me for a tranny someday. LOL. Please can anyone tell me if this makes him gay or bi? Are the any "straight" men out there who are also into that so you can explain this to me? Please i want to understand..I love him very much and this ***** :(
Danv86, I to later in life saw a shemale on Maury that I thought had to be a girl. My gf at the time went on A shemale website and I was so turned on by only the beautiful ones. We both had fun with this together. I also shared this with later gfs and it excited them both. One thing though, I had a young guy in his 20s hit on me and he looked cute to me. If he was to put makeup on and dress like a girl he would pass. This happened 10 years after I started looking at shemale porn. I never did anything with him, but since him, I have seen 4 other younger guys that I really liked over the past few years.....So maybe this is just an extension of my liking of shemales or I am turning from bicurious to bisexual...... See if he likes looking at twinks and that will give you an answer.
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I am a Natural occurring Shemale. I feel inside I am a woman when a man engages me. In His mind too at that moment I think he considers me a female. So in My humble opinion and own experience, it is the Feminine pleasing the Masculine and that is just pretty much a normal event.
He may have bi tendencies or just curious. If he is sleeping with you he Obviously wants You his Girl and do not forget that as his Presence with you should be enough as he has voted with his feet and his penis. Do not be afraid as most people really are Bi-sexual its just not all have the courage to admit that due to our
Puritan and Racist Society when it comes to anything a bit different. Hell even science was bad in the middle ages and they would burn you for reading the bible by yourself. So we have come a long way but we still have much of the witch hunters and priests dissing a lot of portions of segments in society.
I as born Man , When I was 16 looked 22 and full beard etc. I had great sex life mrried twice 2 families. Afyer age 35 My T levels kept dropping but I did not really check and took suppliments but became very sick 5 yrs ago and tested at 170 for T and that is half of what is Low at 300. I take shots now but continue to feminize even more and breasts keep swelling out 44C bra size without doing anything to cause this.
Now mentally I see my Body as female and care for it as that. Now I crave the attention and adoring of Men the Most but still Love Women also.
Danielle
A Natural Occurring Shemale
He may have bi tendencies or just curious. If he is sleeping with you he Obviously wants You his Girl and do not forget that as his Presence with you should be enough as he has voted with his feet and his penis. Do not be afraid as most people really are Bi-sexual its just not all have the courage to admit that due to our
Puritan and Racist Society when it comes to anything a bit different. Hell even science was bad in the middle ages and they would burn you for reading the bible by yourself. So we have come a long way but we still have much of the witch hunters and priests dissing a lot of portions of segments in society.
I as born Man , When I was 16 looked 22 and full beard etc. I had great sex life mrried twice 2 families. Afyer age 35 My T levels kept dropping but I did not really check and took suppliments but became very sick 5 yrs ago and tested at 170 for T and that is half of what is Low at 300. I take shots now but continue to feminize even more and breasts keep swelling out 44C bra size without doing anything to cause this.
Now mentally I see my Body as female and care for it as that. Now I crave the attention and adoring of Men the Most but still Love Women also.
Danielle
A Natural Occurring Shemale
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I love watching shemale anime.I want to hook up with a shemale that I can milk like a cow and make love to any time I want.How do I get that lucky in Orlando?
that was brilliant, and hugely apropos.. kudos for being spot-on, my friend..
(me: just found pics on BF of 5 years' phone.. 80% standard vag-porn.. 20%.. at first glance looked to be standard vag-porn, but then the shoulder span, and thigh-gap .. I dared not open the photos.. my heart was about to stop! I was just browsing thumbnails.. my chest felt like a balloon about to pop, and my eyes welled-up with tears.. how can I ever be this for him? and I enjoy anal penetration, frequently, with him.. so, am I.. is he.. uhm, you know, thinking about.. me.. with.. .. its not a horrible thing.. but it is not me.. I like to be the one being taken, I like strong men.. I am soft, and yielding.. completely.. but very shy and I can't even talk during sex.. I am loud, but not vocal.. I wish I could be.. ..I digress..)
I am still torn up inside.. more so than just the vagina-pics (he always tells me how much he loves mine and how delicious I am and how he needs to lick me.. and I am shy, so.. its hard for me to relax and let him..) so now, after seeing the pics, I was so forlorn for our sex life..
I think the best thing is to take a look inside ourselves, those in this situation, and evaluate the relationship (and sex) outside of this shemale porn issue.. contrast the two; put them side-by-side, mentally, and see which stands out.. is he hiding in the shed three times a week watching shemale porn while we are hungering for him, desperately, inside? or is the issue several pics that look like 100% females, until we fine tune the image?
in light of that video, that lecture on the differences between male and female arousal (etc), and the info from everyone here, I am willing to believe that he doesn't fully understand the urge, is shamed by the threat (imagined) poses to his masculinity, and therefore does not vocalize these ideas to me.. given the loathsome cistern that is internet porn, and the immediate availability of absolutely ANYTHING you want to see, anytime, anywhere.. I am really confident my man just likes to see sexy, long-haired, height-weight proportionate, x-rated visual stimulus like 90% of other men out there who don't know why they like feet or heels or thigh-highs or gangbangs..
and I will add, quickly, that I am all for individuality and freedom, sexually.. I had a good friend who was trans.. it just is not what does it for me.. I was not prepared to see dicks on those chicks whose pics he had DL'd on his phone.. blew my mind..
(me: just found pics on BF of 5 years' phone.. 80% standard vag-porn.. 20%.. at first glance looked to be standard vag-porn, but then the shoulder span, and thigh-gap .. I dared not open the photos.. my heart was about to stop! I was just browsing thumbnails.. my chest felt like a balloon about to pop, and my eyes welled-up with tears.. how can I ever be this for him? and I enjoy anal penetration, frequently, with him.. so, am I.. is he.. uhm, you know, thinking about.. me.. with.. .. its not a horrible thing.. but it is not me.. I like to be the one being taken, I like strong men.. I am soft, and yielding.. completely.. but very shy and I can't even talk during sex.. I am loud, but not vocal.. I wish I could be.. ..I digress..)
I am still torn up inside.. more so than just the vagina-pics (he always tells me how much he loves mine and how delicious I am and how he needs to lick me.. and I am shy, so.. its hard for me to relax and let him..) so now, after seeing the pics, I was so forlorn for our sex life..
I think the best thing is to take a look inside ourselves, those in this situation, and evaluate the relationship (and sex) outside of this shemale porn issue.. contrast the two; put them side-by-side, mentally, and see which stands out.. is he hiding in the shed three times a week watching shemale porn while we are hungering for him, desperately, inside? or is the issue several pics that look like 100% females, until we fine tune the image?
in light of that video, that lecture on the differences between male and female arousal (etc), and the info from everyone here, I am willing to believe that he doesn't fully understand the urge, is shamed by the threat (imagined) poses to his masculinity, and therefore does not vocalize these ideas to me.. given the loathsome cistern that is internet porn, and the immediate availability of absolutely ANYTHING you want to see, anytime, anywhere.. I am really confident my man just likes to see sexy, long-haired, height-weight proportionate, x-rated visual stimulus like 90% of other men out there who don't know why they like feet or heels or thigh-highs or gangbangs..
and I will add, quickly, that I am all for individuality and freedom, sexually.. I had a good friend who was trans.. it just is not what does it for me.. I was not prepared to see dicks on those chicks whose pics he had DL'd on his phone.. blew my mind..
Id like to back upnthe comment before me in that men who are attravted to transgender women are still attracted to women, not specifically their genitalia, its either justbdoesnt matter to them or the idea of a beautiful woman who can penetrate you withoutntoys is a turn on, or simply likenpenises but arent attracted to men (all three apply to me, i honestly think eduarda rodrigues is the most attractive woman in the world, beautiful face feminine body, exactly what i want in a woman, her penis just so happens to be cute too, my gf has no problems with this, trust me theres nothing wrong with it :) hope this helps
To those saying sex with a shemale makes someone bi or gay:
What is it then when a man has sex with a transgendered man who still has a vagina such as Buck Angel? If you define orientation by genitalia and the type of sex one has in this instance then all those men who had sex with Buck Angel in his GAY PORN MOVIES aren't actually gay but straight because they were having sexual intercourse with a vagina.
Of course this is nonsense. Those attracted to Buck are attracted to him because he looks like a man, acts like a man and is a man regardless of him still having a vagina. These men can be gay or bisexual.
Likewise the men attracted to shemales are attracted to them because they look like women, act like women and are women regardless of them having penises. These men can be straight or bisexual.
Put simply. If a man likes genetic women and transgendered women but NOT men then he is straight. If he likes men too then he is bisexual. Gay is only liking men. Many shemale lovers do not like men so they aren't bisexual or gay but straight.
Guys please do your research on sexual orientation because the responses here are ignorant especially from these alleged "gay supporters" who have proven that they don't understand sexual orientation at all.
Either deal with these facts or accept that you're transphobic and don't understand gender identity or transsexualism.
What is it then when a man has sex with a transgendered man who still has a vagina such as Buck Angel? If you define orientation by genitalia and the type of sex one has in this instance then all those men who had sex with Buck Angel in his GAY PORN MOVIES aren't actually gay but straight because they were having sexual intercourse with a vagina.
Of course this is nonsense. Those attracted to Buck are attracted to him because he looks like a man, acts like a man and is a man regardless of him still having a vagina. These men can be gay or bisexual.
Likewise the men attracted to shemales are attracted to them because they look like women, act like women and are women regardless of them having penises. These men can be straight or bisexual.
Put simply. If a man likes genetic women and transgendered women but NOT men then he is straight. If he likes men too then he is bisexual. Gay is only liking men. Many shemale lovers do not like men so they aren't bisexual or gay but straight.
Guys please do your research on sexual orientation because the responses here are ignorant especially from these alleged "gay supporters" who have proven that they don't understand sexual orientation at all.
Either deal with these facts or accept that you're transphobic and don't understand gender identity or transsexualism.
To those saying sex with a shemale makes someone bi or gay:
What is it then when a man has sex with a transgendered man who still has a vagina such as Buck Angel? If you define orientation by genitalia and the type of sex one has in this instance then all those men who had sex with Buck Angel in his GAY PORN MOVIES aren't actually gay but straight because they were having sexual intercourse with a vagina.
Of course this is nonsense. Those attracted to Buck are attracted to him because he looks like a man, acts like a man and is a man regardless of him still having a vagina. These men can be gay or bisexual.
Likewise the men attracted to shemales are attracted to them because they look like women, act like women and are women regardless of them having penises. These men can be straight or bisexual.
Either deal with these facts or accept that you're transphobic and don't understand gender identify or transsexualism.
What is it then when a man has sex with a transgendered man who still has a vagina such as Buck Angel? If you define orientation by genitalia and the type of sex one has in this instance then all those men who had sex with Buck Angel in his GAY PORN MOVIES aren't actually gay but straight because they were having sexual intercourse with a vagina.
Of course this is nonsense. Those attracted to Buck are attracted to him because he looks like a man, acts like a man and is a man regardless of him still having a vagina. These men can be gay or bisexual.
Likewise the men attracted to shemales are attracted to them because they look like women, act like women and are women regardless of them having penises. These men can be straight or bisexual.
Either deal with these facts or accept that you're transphobic and don't understand gender identify or transsexualism.
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