Even your festures in bed will tell him that you are not virgin.It is very difficult to act innotions in sex.Do not try. You may say i do not want to discuss old affaiurs of mine and yours. This should settle your affair.
From what I can understand, you want to make the guy you're marrying believe you're a virgin?? Its impossible. When you start having sex with him and don't bleed, he'll know you're not a virgin.
Unless your prepared to get cosmetic surgery to recreate the broken hymen, the best thing to do is to be honest. Because your future husband will be suspicious if he doesn't see blood (even though that doesnt have to happen when you lose virginity) but your guilt is going to speak volumes.
I think you're S.O.L. should've thought of that before!