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Penis Size, why is it important?

I am not saying this to make anyone laugh but my penis is 1 and a 1/2 inch when hard, yes I was born with the condition known as Micro-penis and back in my high school years I didn't know this I thought it was average until the 2nd time I was laughed out of the bedroom. The first one was more polite and didn't actually laugh she just felt it with her hand smirked ever so subtly and said "I think we're taking it too far too soon", but the 2nd one she was so mean, and cruel she saw it and laughed like a screaming banshee, started making making ego crushing jokes like "Someone call U.P.S. this guy has a small package" and insults like "my 7 year old brother isn't this small" (Pretty weird ***** if she measures her young brother's ****) and continues to say that it couldn't satisfy her If it was 4 inches but the jokes on her because girls are never satisfied but I've moved on since then
I realized I was a closeted asexual just looking for sex because of peer pressure (I never even liked
the feeling of my erection and have never masturbated) I stopped looking for women until I was sent one from heaven my wife of 10 years mother of my seven children (#8
is on the way) but looking back at my Faux-spring years I can't help but think about how my conception of my size has changed over the years and how i look at it now as a blessing and a key to the future..

But before I saw it that way and recently I kept looking on the internet for this question but all I find is kids with 4-7 inch dicks thinking that is small, but kids are stupid as I was. As I read these questions I just can't help but ask some my own and get the public to answer so my questions are


Why is a big penis so desired and a small one (like mine and all other men under 3 inches) so laughed at and scorned to the point where they question their worth as a human being ?

Is sex really the end all be all of human existence as Ferris Bueller said or is that idea just a glorified mess spewed out by media?

Is it the fault of size queens or the psychological male penis envy of wanting bigger bigger bigger to enough excess that they can use their penises as pogo sticks to get around?

Why is this such a big issue especially for teens and pre-teens who should focus more on their studies?

I'd like to end on a joke

This family of a mom, dad, son, and daughter were at a nude beach the son and daughter were playing in the sand when the daughter runs to mom and says "Mommy I saw a woman with bigger boobies then yours" the mother looks at her and says "The bigger they are the dumber they are" so the girl goes back to the sand as the son comes up to mom and says "mom I saw a man with a bigger ding-**** than daddy's" the mother looks at the son and says "The bigger they are the dumber they are" so the boy walks back to the sand after a while the son and daughter come up to the mom and says "Mommy we saw daddy talking to the dumbest lady we've ever seen and it must be contagious because daddy was getting dumber and dumber by the second."
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I don't think a good woman would laugh if she saw a micropenis.  There are only nerves in the first third of the vagina, and a woman can have an orgasm without even having penetration, so if someone hooted at you, that is her own loss.  Many women would not laugh.

I do think that men being competitive about penis size is just that -- males being competitive, on the mistaken notion that big penises get more women.  There is DEFINITELY the possibility that a penis can be too big to be comfortable.  Women with a delicate vagina would find 1 1/2 inches just about right.

Teens and pre-teens will seize on any dumb thing to tease and torment themselves about.  If someone has a big nose or his ears stick out, or he's fat, or whatever, they will write the script and play it out.

Delighted you found a good woman.
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Hi,

I myself very concern about my penis size. I have 13 cm penis length when erect. (No offence intended). I am 20, and I always want my willy to grow longer and bigger. Reading your question makes me grateful for what I have.

I don't think penis size really matters, as long as a man can still father children.

My view.

Cheers.
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One thing we tend to do in our culture is to isolate body parts rather than look at the whole person.   What is a desirable size has a lot to do with culture, the norm, and extremes. Western culture, for example, tends to favor and promote thin women with large breasts--at least the magazines and movies do.   In reality, it's difficult for thin women to have large breasts due to the lack of body fat--a main component of breast tissue. In some current world cultures, large and obese women are desirable as that indicates prosperity of the husband or family.

If you were to believe the movies, all 'normal' men are hung like horses. But the average is far from that.  In some past cultures, the Roman Empire for example, a more boyish penis size was considered more attractive as a large penis was associated with less sophistication.  Look at the Roman statue David, for example. So, the 'ideal' often has more to do with culture than function.  And exactly why a culture tends to promote a look is arguable.  

However, the most important thing about a penis is WHO it's attached to. Again, it's the whole person that really matters in relationships.  We are much more than the sum of our body parts.
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yeah I knew of the roman and greek size judgement of
large penis = savage, boorish and unattractive
small penis = gentlemanly and aristocratic

I turn to it every time I'm asked about my size, that and "the gorilla size principle" as mentioned below

a gorilla has huge biceps, peaking pectorals, and the strength of 6 men you'd think that with all that power they'd have dicks so large they'd hang down to their knees, but you'd be wrong.

Gorillas have the smallest penis in the animal kingdom and although they may be as tall as us their penis is 2 inches erected so yes the most macho animal on earth is as small as me  

Gorilla Power

PS David is not Roman he was sculpted in Florance
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Yeah, you are right.  Michelangelo worked from Rome and Florence, but sculpted David in Florence.  Not sure the where matters as much as the what.  You are also correct about gorillas.   King Kong sought tiny girlfriends.
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although I still think it would hurt Anne Darrow on their honeymoon
since King Kong is 25 feet tall I would think his dork would be 2 1/2 - 3 feet and as thick as a baseball bat so It would be alot like that sorority girl that Ted Bundy raped with a bedpost there would be serious internal bleading and damage to the uterus (if he uses even half of his size which he will because I see him (at least the 1933 Kong) as Lenny from Of Mice And men using too much force on little creatures. The 2005 looks like a very intelligent gorilla or at least more bright than the innocent 1933 Kong so he might know to do his fishing in shallow waters

PS It's also strange to note that David was Jewish in the story but Michelangelo Buonarroti's statue of him is uncircumsised. I guess the model wasn't and Michelangelo had never seen one that was cut so he just desided to keep it natural rather than risk sculpting what he thought cut men look like.
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