Perineal cuts

[princess913]

i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. my boyfriendis quite large down there and it did take some time for me to get used to his size, so he was very gentle when we had sex. however there was one time when we had a little more rough sex than usual and i found myself bleeding. i did not realise where the bleeding was coming from untill i felt a stinging cut on my perineum so after this injury we took a little break from sex to allow me to heal. But having a little break did not help, it is like the cuts on my perineum keep on re-opening i whet to get some advice from a doctor at my clinic and she told me perhaps there is not enough lubrication down there but this is not problem because we always do enough foreplay and he also stimulates me orrally to make sure and yet i still bleed i really want to know wat is happening to my skin down there and why its not healing? its like me and him can never have rough sex anymore otherwise i will bleed also most of the time it is not even rough and i still bleed, please can someone tell me what is happening cuz this i am always having a fear everytime i have sex now

[LVdiva]

I have had this problem for 7 months and it comes and goes.  Starts mostly pre menstrually.  If this is your case, I researched for so long and finally found this article in Australia http://thecentreofhealth.com.au/womens-health/vaginal-thrush-candidiasis/   This is not as simple as your think, this is a sign of systemic candida and is hard to get rid of.  If this is your case, you can get free help here:  http://www.earthclinic.com/CURES/candida.html  I don't recommend constant prescriptions for this as they are just a bandaid, they destroy good bacteria along with the bad, follow this natural healing plan.  Clear your bowels (completely), start probiotics regimen and follow one of the candida killing plans, stay on a maintenance of keeping your bowels moving 3x daily (ex: colon clear one daily) and alkalize your system.  PS:  you will have to get OFF sugar!  this is the hard part

[NOHARD]

Hi Princess, I like sea salt we have sea salt pool, its very good for your skin and its does work, been getting some good replys for its use.
Good Luck
Try the B 6, all natural things are best.

[princess913]

i have also tried salt baths however it was standard salt and also i was not consistent with it i only tried once so maybe i will try that again

thankyou

[princess913]

thankyou for your response i have not been checked for that but will defitely get checked out for a yeast infection. i have not been using neosporin so i dont really know what is stopping me from healing. i will also try the extra lube

Thankyou

[NOHARD]

Hi Princess, OK lets take your wound first, try this its so simple, try some nice sea saly water baths, try these twice a day, sea salt will help clean and heal your wound, its also very good for your skin, if you have trouble finding some try a pool centre, yopu can get big bags cheap, as a couple of big handfulls wont go amiss.
For your dryness try putting yourself on vitamin B 6, should get your juices running 29 out 31 days a month.
Good Luck

[Anonymouse88]

You need to wait to heal again, and then you need to invest in some water or silicone based lube.  There are a number of young women who don't produce enough for comfort, and sometimes even what seems like a lot isn't enough for your situation.  You can never have too much lube.  You might also want to get checked for a yeast infection, since that can cause irritation and make chafing a lot worse, although it's not usually in the perineal area.  If the area now refuses to heal, it's worth getting checked for neosporin resistant bacteria (if you've been using neosporin) or for yeast.  Not sure if it applies to you, but it's something to think about.