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Porn addiction

Has anyone ever had a husband who watches porn everywhere he goes lies about it.Never wants sex with me.Makes me feel ugly nobody would want me?Is it me I cry all the time.He doesnt care a bit,What can I do?
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139792 tn?1498585650
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Many a time a husband blames his wife when he has erectile dysfunction (ED)Find out whether he has this problem. He may have reduced libido.Learn kegel exercises. Do kegeing while doing intercourse. This gives pleasant  sensation to a  male and female.If he has less libido, you may ask him to do male deer exercise. you may Google for these exercises.A time comes in everyone's life when the libido is reduced for some time.If there is some gap in sexual activity, sexual urge can be restored.
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Porn is one of those things that can be very destructive in a relationship.  It may be absolutely fine for one couple as both partners do not mind it.  However, some people take watching porn to the extreme and do so to the detriment of other things.  They are driven in the same way that one is when addicted to a substance as it can begin to work in the same way on the brain.  There is a book called 'your brain on porn" which really gives an accurate depiction of this.  

When someone can't give it up and begins sneaking and lying . . .  it's a problem.  

I agree that if you can't come to an agreement on this, that the marriage probably shouldn't continue.  If porn is more important than your feelings----  that is a clear sign that he has a problem.  good luck
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Hi I'm a husband who watches porn but I watch it with my wife. It seems to take a woman longer to accept watching porn is ok.  We have great sex after watching it. We both get really excited when we watch it. See if your husband would like that, watch it together and try some of the stuff they do in the viodes.
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Hi Dakota, sorry but time to cut and run, then you can find a real man who wants you for you, and really wants sex with you and not a picture or a vidio.
Step outside and look at the real picture.
Hope this helps with your problem.
Good Luck
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