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Possible issue with controlling sexual urges.

I am an 18 year old TransMale (FtM; Female to Male) and been on testosterone for about 2 years now. Recently I've been almost constantly thinking about sex and masturbation. Even the female genitalia I once hated has started to serve some purpose to my recent activites. I keep looking at porn or manga to maybe just get the tension out by reading; which it doesn't really help. Thoughts of just taking an extra long "shower" or getting a FWB keep popping up. Is something wrong with me? Do I need help? Please give me some advice before I do something I really might regret.
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No, there is nothing wrong with you. You're a normal teen on top of being on testosterone. In my opinion, males at this age can have a higher sex drive than girls. I understand why you hate your vagina but it is the only sexual organ you have right now. I'm not sure if you plan to have bottom surgery or not. What I'm saying is this. There is nothing wrong with you, hormones give us our sex drive and there's nothing wrong with masturbation or having thoughts about sex.
I'm always here if you want to talk, okay.
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I had a FTM friends with benefits and he was very sexual because of hormones, to help ease his mind he kinda liked to think of the cliterous as a small penis. Also he would *** like every 5-10 minutes during sex (kinda annoying having to stop several times TBH), would say what you're feeling is natural thanks to testosterone.
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