I KNOW WHERE YOU'RE COMING FROM. I CAN'T SEEM TO MAINTAIN AN ERECTION TO HAVE SEX WITH MY WIFE LONG ENOUGH OR GET A FULL ERECTION AT TIMES TO MASTURBATE TO EJACTULATION. FOR THIS REASON I STARTED USING AN ELECTRONIC VIBRATING RABBIT VIBRATOR FOR ANAL MASTURBATION. I'VE FOUND THIS TO BE VERY PLEASURABLE WHEN I CAN'T HAVE TRADITIONAL SEX. I SUGGEST TRYING IT SOMETIME. VIBRATORS CAN BE A LITTLE EXPENSIVE BUT NOT SO MUCH AS SATISFYING YOU SEXUALLY.
If flexibility of anal spincture is your goal, you may do periphera anal prostate massage. Google this phrase, by reading it , you will know whether it will work for you.
Another is a chinese method, where you cant rat all the four sides of anus, one by bone. This is to be done while breathing in. This increases the pressure inside which has many heath benefits.We will not find this in Googlle as we do not have proper name for this method.You will find description of this method in 100 days practice by Eric Steven Yudelove. Few pages are available in Amazon.
Read contract all the four sides of anus, one by one.
I am completely able to get and maintain an erection for as long as I feel it needed so you're wrong when you think I practice anal masturbation because of some kind of erection issues. If that had been the case, I'd have written that as well OR I would have posted another question about such an issue.
But I thank you for your advice on trying on a rabbit-vibrator. I might buy one in the future or maybe just a normal, vibrating dildo.
Thanks for your time!
I'm always very tight in the beginning every time I masturbate anally but after a few minutes, the sphincter gets quite flexible for me which worried me a little in the beginning but every new time I masturbate like this, it's just as tight as last time but this isn't what I was looking for. What I meant was that I want the walls inside my butt to stay to the sides for a few seconds to that if I insert a finger or two, I won't be able to feel the walls. It'd be like a tunnel that a car drives through in the essence that the car doesn't touch the walls of the tunnel. Of course I don't want it to be like this when I'm not masturbating so if it possible to achieve this, I'd love it.
Thanks for your time! :)
By these exercises you will be able to control your anus muscle and keep it a tunneil like passage. One person did get tunnel like space and he felt the pleasure of surrendering by his wife. In fact in groin area, there are 5 parts which can be exercised.Base of the penis, Penis itself, scrotum, and all 4 parts of anus and pc muscles. They are contracted while exhaling and relaxed while exhaling.Groin area gets full blood supply.
Perineum (small muscle between anus and base of the penis ia also an important part for exercising.While you contract perineum, it goes in and up as small inverted dome.This is one of the pleasure point and place first chakra resides.By cultivating groin muscles one can manipulate anus in any way. While exhaling one contracts all musles or one by one and while inhaling relax all muscles.(This is a corrected version over the above one..