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Regarding erection
Hi,
I have married recently in August,2010. I had very good sex with my partner in first month, with good amount of erection of pennis. Recently, iam facing the problem of low erection. it is erecting good at the time of atarting the intercourse. But, it gets soft as it reaches to middle. Iam leaving the sperm at the end, but in soft condition of penis. Please let me know the cause for this and remedy. Please help me on this.
thanks,
Rama.
I have married recently in August,2010. I had very good sex with my partner in first month, with good amount of erection of pennis. Recently, iam facing the problem of low erection. it is erecting good at the time of atarting the intercourse. But, it gets soft as it reaches to middle. Iam leaving the sperm at the end, but in soft condition of penis. Please let me know the cause for this and remedy. Please help me on this.
thanks,
Rama.
The reason I ask you that was because I had the same issues you have right now and when I decided to take masturbation out of the equation I no longer experience any of those problems. You can read some of my other posts but I'll break it down to you right here...
I am now 33 but have been experiencing erection problems since I was 17. I can't even count how many woman I dissappointed when it came down to have sex. For 16 years, I could never maintain an erection nor reach ejaculation thru a latex condom. Yet, all my friends could...
I had my doctor prescribe me viagra, cialis or levitra to help the matter and that did not make a big difference. If I was not sexually excited, the medicine would not work. If I lost excitement during sex due to lack of penis sensation, the medicine would stop working. This has been going on for years.
Between all my issues, I used to masturbate just to alleviate my sexual frustrations. I would do it once a day, twice a day, or sometimes 3-4 times a day. If I knew I had a date on Friday, I would not masturbate Thursday. However, I would still have some erection issues during my date so this method was not working.
But recently I realize that when I masturbate I get erections with no problem. And thats because I'm stimulating my penis head the entire time during masturbation.
So I told myself, if there was a way for my penis to enjoy the vagina stimulation the entire time, I should not lose my erection plus ejaculate.
The only thing I could think of that was blocking this issue was me masturbating. Somehow, the stroking of my hand was reducing my penis sensation. I was able to climax from unprotected sex, using a lambskin condom but NEVER A LATEX CONDOM AND THAT BOTHERED ME.
So I decided to wank one more time and then leave my penis alone for a while to see if that made a difference. I also bought me the manhood @ manhood.mb.ca
After 3 weeks of no touching my penis, my gf came over and we started making out. I was feignin for her touch because my penis hasn't been touched in 3 weeks. When she touched me, rubbed me and sucked me, all 3 felt double the penis sensation than what I normally feel. But the big test was the latex condom.
I couldn't believe it!!! As soon as I penetrated her with the condom I felt a sensation and then more sensation after every stroke. I was enjoying myself for the first time with a condom. We lasted 10 minutes and I finally ejaculated in the condom. She was so happy for me.
Since her, I hooked up with 2 other women and got the same results. So now my confidence is stronger.
I come to the conclusion that the reason I was struggling with enjoying sex and maintaining my erection was because my penis enjoys the stimulation from my hand more.
So what I'm doing now is abandoning my penis and allowing it to only feel a touch from a woman. And this is tremendously working out for me.
It's been 5 weeks since I masturbated and so far I pleased 3 different woman WITH A LATEX CONDOM. With that being said, I AM NEVER GOING BACK TO MASTURBATION.
I am now 33 but have been experiencing erection problems since I was 17. I can't even count how many woman I dissappointed when it came down to have sex. For 16 years, I could never maintain an erection nor reach ejaculation thru a latex condom. Yet, all my friends could...
I had my doctor prescribe me viagra, cialis or levitra to help the matter and that did not make a big difference. If I was not sexually excited, the medicine would not work. If I lost excitement during sex due to lack of penis sensation, the medicine would stop working. This has been going on for years.
Between all my issues, I used to masturbate just to alleviate my sexual frustrations. I would do it once a day, twice a day, or sometimes 3-4 times a day. If I knew I had a date on Friday, I would not masturbate Thursday. However, I would still have some erection issues during my date so this method was not working.
But recently I realize that when I masturbate I get erections with no problem. And thats because I'm stimulating my penis head the entire time during masturbation.
So I told myself, if there was a way for my penis to enjoy the vagina stimulation the entire time, I should not lose my erection plus ejaculate.
The only thing I could think of that was blocking this issue was me masturbating. Somehow, the stroking of my hand was reducing my penis sensation. I was able to climax from unprotected sex, using a lambskin condom but NEVER A LATEX CONDOM AND THAT BOTHERED ME.
So I decided to wank one more time and then leave my penis alone for a while to see if that made a difference. I also bought me the manhood @ manhood.mb.ca
After 3 weeks of no touching my penis, my gf came over and we started making out. I was feignin for her touch because my penis hasn't been touched in 3 weeks. When she touched me, rubbed me and sucked me, all 3 felt double the penis sensation than what I normally feel. But the big test was the latex condom.
I couldn't believe it!!! As soon as I penetrated her with the condom I felt a sensation and then more sensation after every stroke. I was enjoying myself for the first time with a condom. We lasted 10 minutes and I finally ejaculated in the condom. She was so happy for me.
Since her, I hooked up with 2 other women and got the same results. So now my confidence is stronger.
I come to the conclusion that the reason I was struggling with enjoying sex and maintaining my erection was because my penis enjoys the stimulation from my hand more.
So what I'm doing now is abandoning my penis and allowing it to only feel a touch from a woman. And this is tremendously working out for me.
It's been 5 weeks since I masturbated and so far I pleased 3 different woman WITH A LATEX CONDOM. With that being said, I AM NEVER GOING BACK TO MASTURBATION.
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