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my husband and I have been together for 11 years and have had a great sex life until about a month ago. We were having sex one day and he couldnt reach orgasm,a few days later he couldnt get hard when I touched him,but did by masterbation.He finally came home from work one day saying he went to the dr and he is suffering from anxiety. I guess my question is if he cheated could that be what is causing both his ED and anxiety? I have felt since that first day that he has been with someone else?
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Anxiety can come from many forms and it gives us men a real bad time, but did his Dr give any kind of tests to say its anxiety, its ok I was told the same, and if read about ED then ita a standard anwser for Drs to say, you've not said his age, he could try some DHEA but please read up about it first as it can have the od side effect with some people, but it should boost his libido, his testosterone and his energy levels, and back this up with some Tribulus, it does the same thing so he gets a double boost, the Tribulus takes around 8 weeks to get up to full speed, and the DHEA start at a low dose and slowly build it up, these you can google for more info and just add for ED on the ned.
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1828226 tn?1323565248
Him seeing someone else like you suspect is not guarantee. and him making you feel and believe he actually stopped looking and masturbating to porn is not guaranteed either.

Go with your instinct and good luck!
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thats not it,he used to watch porn all the time and I was ok with it. But then i found a pic of some woman,non nude that he downloaded and he has stopped watching porn or even getting on the computer since then. He keeps telling me he is scared I am gonna leave him,but when I ask him why ,he doesnt say.
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1828226 tn?1323565248
Not necessarily. He could be experiencing anxiety because he can't believe he didn't reach orgasm that one time. Or it could be he's masturbating a lil too much in his spare time before he has sex with you. Nowadays, masturbating goes hand in hand with watching porn. Maybe there is a possibility your husband is becoming indulged with porn.
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