I like to stand up and get bended over a chair, keeping my legs strait. I do have to stop at times and bend my knees a little so my legs dont fall aasleep, but this seems to allow my husband good enter into me. I am not that plus size (5-1, 250), but I too have had some of those like problems due to rikets from when I was younger. I had to give up riding on the top becuse of this and too my husband is clastrofobic and asmatic. I will sometimes will use a miror to see him while we have sex. Just remember it is for your love and you will both be satesfied:-)
Hello gigglek,
Did you try my suggestion? If it works let me know and it would be nice if you could send a picture.
just a suggestion try sitting on your partner at the foot of the bed leaning forward
on a chair for support. If you try it and it helps let us know