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I am 29 year old healthy male married 10 months ago. The problem is that I am unable to penetrate her until now. Whenever we tried to have intercourse it ended up in failure and depression. I think that my wife's vagina is too tight and sensitive that it can't let me in. I normally have a good erection but i loose it after 3-4 attempts. Shen won't let me finger her vagina as she felt pain, rather she asked me to do it with Penis. We both love each other and we did try a lot of foreplay before intercourse as well but somehow it didn't work. Help required as we both are now very frustrated and depressed.
Well my fingernail is naturally long but its not sharp and damaged. She gets lots of fluid during foreplay so I dont think that would be an issue. Yes we consulted a gynae few months ago and she told us that her vagina is completely OK. We also tried KY Jelly as well.
Well, a penis is longer and thicker than a finger, so if it hurts too much to insert a finger then a penis will certainly be worse (as long as your fingernail isn't long or sharp or damaged). It could be because she is too dry (some women naturally produce more lubricant than others), in which case it could really help to use some lubricant (KY jelly or similar), either with a finger or penis.
Has your wife seen a doctor about this?
Has your wife seen a doctor about this?
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