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What are the medical risks of anal fisting?

I am 16 and female.  My boyfriend enjoys me fingering him. I enjoy to finger him. I have gotten four fingers in him, and he has gotten four of his own fingers inside of himself while masturbating for me. (His fingers are much larger since he is male and a lot taller than me.) I am 16 and he is 17. (We live in South Carolina where the age of consent is 16) I have been fingering him for a while, and he wants me to try to fist him. I am thrilled to try, but I have concerns about hurting him. is it dangerous? I have read several opposing stories of how it can damage the sphincter muscles. Can anyone share personal experiences of it harming or not harming them? We use coconut oil (and lots of it!) as lube. Thanks for taking time for my questions. I just want to be sure it's safe before we try it.
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No - it is not dangerous and you will not cause permanent harm IF - and I do mean IF - you go slow and use excessive amounts of lube.  Make sure your nails are trimmed, no cuts in your hands, wear gloves if you can/will, be patient.  When you hit the limits of him being comfortable pause there and just hold the pressure for 20-30 seconds then slowly withdraw your hand.  You do this repeatedly and over time you will slip inside him - and from personal experience you will both be amazed at the pleasure it will provide.  
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It is and can be safe.... use plenty of lube, go slowly and wear latex gloves.  As a gay man, many men who practice this have no problems
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It also tears the tissues inside the victim to the point if done to the anal opening enough the victim will end up wearing diapers because they can no longer hold their poo in. Stretching a vagina out unnaturally is also tearing the tissues inside and could cause blood clots which can work their way to the brain or heart and if you are a man and the vagina is all stretched out you will find there is no longer any pleasure or sensation left with that person and you will either throw her away or have an affair with someone else who has a tight vagina. So isn't this fun what we can do to a woman, use her getting our rocks off and when we are done we throw her away and find another and that victim is ruined for life but who cares there are so many new women and young men coming into BDSM there is a never ending supply and as us, the Master we just have our fun at the victim's expense. This Master will never do that to his sub/slaves ever and will not allow it to be done to them by anyone else I will protect my property.
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I agree - I have heard stories of people shoving pretty large objects up there & later having trouble controlling their defecation. That does NOT sound like fun...
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Just go slow, use lots of lube, wear a glove, and always have a safe word. If you do that then things will be just fine!
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maybe try something else freaky and equally exciting but i'd stay away from this kinda thing for a while  just not a good idea with all kind of diseases floatin around  not worth it if u ask me   plenty of other ways to experience sexual pleasure    its just to risky       oh and if u are going to do it anyway cause when i was ur age i never took good advice  or what i now consider to have been good advice   just make sure u research the crap out of it    dont have cuts on your hands   wash hands very good before and after     heck use gloves and discard immideatly afterwords    i dont know its just not a good idea  to risky in my opinion but you are ur own person  so you have evryright     just don screw up ur whole life because of some sexual act.   and make sure you really know the persons health history and just if this person is really someone you want to share this with  and if you really trust the person not to hurt you   idk seems to complicated to me but goodluck in w/e u choose  
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There are 4 types of prostate massage. One of them is Anal peripheral prostate massage. This massage can be done on male and female. This would be safer and beneficial than random fingering and fisting.. Google prostate massage for details.
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Not from personal experience, but I recommend using just a single finger.  That's enough for the feeling.  More isn't better in this case, and one would want to avoid any future problems.  
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