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can she lose virginity by fingering (without bleeding but with a little bit pain)?

my best friend did it with bf firstly in her life.. she told she felt pain while fingering but had no bleeding. so, can she already be not virgin?
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she is virgin ..if there is no intercourse or penetration involved
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A girl doesn't have to bleed or even feel pain her first time. That idea of virginity is nonsense. The reason many girls do is that they're not turned on enough, or they're really nervous and clench up, or they're simply too dry as a combination of these two and many other factors. Nothing enough foreplay, patience and lube won't fix.

There is no fixed line for what virginity is and isn't. If it had to involve a penis, all lesbians would forever be virgins, which is silly. If penetration is all it takes, girls penetrating themselves when they masturbate would lose their virginity, which is also silly. It's a personal matter - and more importantly, IT'S NOT IMPORTANT.
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