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excessive vaginal secretion during sex

I dont know any other way to say this, so I am sorry for the vulgarity....
When I have sex, I have ALOT of vaginal secretion. I have not had this much with past relationships. Its very wet. To the point that he isnt fully aroused anymore... Does anyone know what could cause this??? HELP!
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Not sure what you can do to get him to like it. Personally I would find it a big turn-on & I think a lot of guys would agree. Maybe just tell him this shows how turned on you are & you could say that’s cause he’s doing such a great job. I’m thinking a compliment like that, kind of stroking his ego, might make him come around. The thing is, this is natural, and the more turned on you are, the more fluids you will produce, so it’s a sign that you are functioning extremely well & it could be he’s doing a good job of getting you there...
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I have the problem that i am also experience these intense orgasms but my pattner does not like the body fluids so he avoids having sex because of his issues with the fluids. Although I would clean it immediately he woild then take a shower. He is really show a lot affection but has this issue. How do I deal with that or make it pleasurable for him too?
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Sorry wrong word. Google squirting. There are many females who ejaculates .This is a good full body orgasm. Male and female both enjoy the sex.
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I get very wet during sex to point were the whole bed is soaked, and it's not urine. It's embarrassing, and honestly that's why I'm celibate for long periods of time, and when I do finally give in they tell me how they've never seen that before, and that's all they want afterwards, sex… I wish someone could help me, because I'm highly sexual, but celibate, no monogamous relationship with the love of my life, or a man who can handle me… I feel your pain…
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Google squatting by female;
Sorry, read it as squirting.
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It could be from your own vagina, because of discharge and secretion. But the difference between discharge and sperm is the thickness and feeling of it. Sprem is more sticky and harder to wipe off in my opinion, while discharge is not as thick. You'd have to feel it to find out which is which. Also you bf should take it out way before hes going to ejaculate because he can also leak a little before fully climaxing. Hope that helps.
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The doctor who has done the surgery should be able to help you. there are few  women who squirt at the time of orgasm. It is good and deep orgasm.In your case, because of surgery, it may be having opposite effect.
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My partner actually squirts seminal fluid during orgasm out of her vaginal cavity. She is hyper sensitive during sex and usually does this 10 to 15 times per hour. It is not a urine discharge which in most "squirting" cases, it is. There have been few creditable studies on this but from the info I have gathered this is very rare 1 in 500,000 thousand woman have this. She cannot do this during masturbation, and out of the 7 males she has been with I have been the only one able to bring her this state. I'm not sure if it has to do with the length of my penis which is just over 10", the largest of her previous lovers was 6". But what I can say is out of my of sexual encounters with hundreds of women she is by far the most fun and exciting. If you are lucky enough to find this do not make her feel akward, embrace her and enjoy the greatest sex life you will ever know.
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Thank you this I will try.
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Thank you for your post. Your post seemed to be the most accurate of what I've been experiencing. He has even complaint that I was "too wet'. In the beginning the desire and feelings start out well, but quickly dies out because o f being too wet. He looses feeling and I lose feeling. This is disappointing.
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This is an old post from 2007.  
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**** her more & wet her vagina with tongue
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I understand exactly what your going through. I was in a relationship for 15 years and I had a prolapse, which caused me to have cystocele repair and my right ovary removed. After the surgery I was getting so wet it was like water running from the faucet and a vaginal urine odor. During sex I would get so wet he wouldn't get erect It felt like I didn't have any walls or bottom, so he cheated and left me. I heard someone say I was too loose. We had no friction during sex and before my surgery we had sex maybe 2 to 3 times a day it was good and he was pleased. I don't have a relationship now, I tried moving on but the same thing is happening and no doctor is even able to explain. It is so frustrating that I don't even like myself anymore. If you find out what's the problem before me please let me know @ ***@****
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I have been together with this woman for two years now. Our sex life has been like no other. We are very compatible and she is the only woman I've been with that has excessive fluids. It is a real turn on for me! From the first night on, towels were used and they were left soaked with juices. I never questioned a thing. I have had my share of sexual relations through the years, but nothing this exciting. We soon became fond of giving oral to one another. I became increasingly wanting more of it. Some nights I would drink up to a quart or more, and still continue to do so. I knew that she was deeply in love with me and I really got into that. I wanted to please her and I guess I get the job done. We have a bonding that I've never felt before. What I wonder is, could drinking this fluid be harmful? I'm a recovering addict and I've already put my body through enough torture. She's healthy, sober, and we make each other happy. So far, there isn't any problem, nor do I foresee any. Then again, that's exactly what I said with drugs and alcohol...      
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I would ignore the people who think it's just because he turns you on so much. If it happens consistently all of a sudden but didn't before, I would say that it is a biological factor that is causing your vagina to release so much vaginal discharge, not his penis. I am experiencing the same thing with my partner, and he is the best lover I've had, yes, but in the past he has given me better orgasms with less wetness as a result. My excessive wetness, therefore, is not typical nor is it just because he's a superb man. There is something up, and though I haven't looked into it much so far, I suspect it may be a yeast infection, from what I know of them and my experience with one in the past. I would consult a symptom checker online (search google. you'll find a few. I usually try more than one). They are usually good at giving you possible explanations for your vaginal changes. Best of luck, and take care of yourself, dear!
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I asked my gynaecologist about this. They offered to scrape some cells from my cervix which apparently reduces the amount of fluid produced. Thankfully I now have a man who takes it as a compliment. Good luck & I hope the answer finds you.
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I am wet all the time and extremely wet during sex. Yes it is a problem Yes it is too wet.I get embarrassed. Ny man says he loves it but I can tell its a problem the way he says Blimey your so wet your dripping.
Sorry no solution but your not alone. If you fund an answer I'd love to know. In going to try regular kegals.
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Ok i would realllllllllllllly appreciate it if someone will help me out with a serious problem i have ok so i am 20 yrs old no kids when me n my bf have sex it just isnt right wel start doing the deed for about a min then my bf cums i guess but its weird cus it doesnt sound like he had an orgasm n its a good amount but its not white /thick its kinda like precum clearish kinda white runny so im very confused if its actual *** or just precum( wen im giving him head he cums but tries to hold it back by holding it then it kinda shoots out in a good amount n i can tell it feels good to him cus he tightens up n he kinda makes these sounds pluss he asks y does it feel so good heh but he doesnt do all those things when hes inside me>:/// ?? again like i said not sure if its actual *** or pre ***) ok back to the subject wen he *cums* his urghmm.. will go dwn then hel try getting off again but it never works out! like he just cant seem to ejaculate i think its cus i get extremely wet to the point where i can barly feel him inside me that n im not as tight as his other gfs :/// idk if the problem is me???? or him n sex is the same every single time  wel go at it for 2 min he *cums/pre cums* hell go at it again but can never finish?!! idk wt to do please someone help :////
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Believe me when i say this. i know exactly what your going through i get so frekin wet during sex my man can feel **** same goes for me its so frustrating n sad but everyone seems to think im lucky??!! wtf iv been trying to find a solution but nothing.. i called a vagina rejuvination center talked to a doctor said their is a procedure that can b done to decrease the amount of fluid thank god but unfortunately it cost uh pretty penny **** ett im doing it anyways!!!
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I think I understand what your man is experiencing.  When a woman is really wet, which should be a great turn-on, it may reduce the friction like momto3incali and others suggested.  One possible solution would be Kegel excercises where you train your sphincter muscles to "squeeze" him.  Look this up on the internet.  It takes some practice, but can enhance your sex life.
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I found this forum while looking for an answer to basically the same question.  My wife occasionally "floods" me...usually during oral sex, but also during vaginal intercourse as well.  At first I thought it was an unintentional release of urine, but it didn't have a urine smell or taste, so I wasn't sure what it was.  Other than being a bit messy (we use a baby's crib pad these days), I find it very enjoyable as I take it to be an indication of her level of arousal.  What specifically the fluid consists of, I don't know, but at this point I have to believe that it's a totally healthy and normal physiological response.  I suspect if men are put off it may be due to their lack of understanding as to what it is and what it means.  Other than the lack of friction (which we've not found to be a problem), I would suggest that a little education would be all that was needed to reassure them.  
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Ok, I have only had this happen to me twice. Once about 6 yrs ago and then last night!!! Last night was the most... I mean Wow, I was so turned on, but I got so wet the whole bed was soaked!!!! It scared me!!! I thoght the gu would turn talk and run, but he didnt... He did not even mind when he rolled over into it and just laid there... He was something else!!! Made me feel like a queen, like I was the sexiest thing on earth and wham!!!!  Everything got totally soaked!!! So, Is that just because of being so turned on?? Or am I what some people call a squirter?? If I am, this has only happened twice in my life!!! But this gu from last night had me worked up just from kissing my hands and sucking on my fingers in the car before we ever got home!!! lol Please, if anyone can give advice I could use it...
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What if excessive wetness only occurs in a few positions, but not any other ones? What does that mean?
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It would be nice for people NOT to post a comment or response unless they have a legitimate "solution" or something that may actually help those in need.  Negative and non-supportive comments really don't belong on a site like this. Unless you have experienced some of these things, you have NO idea what it is like and don't pretend like you do.  Keep it for your FB page or blogs.
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