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having sex with a virgin.

Hello
I had sex with a virgin woman and the experience was somehow not very plesurable....
I managed to break her hymen i think..... and there was a lot of blood!!!!
We stoped and went to the shower the tried again like 3-4 times but she did not know how to properly relax or push her body onto mine and it was very difficult for me to fully penetrate her.....
Any advises? is the next time going to have so much blood?
Also the idea of my bear penis covered in blood was a bit disturbing...
And it makes me wonder if there are any stds that i can contact..
But since she was a virgin i dont think so.(I am sure i dont have anything since i just got my exams back and all is negative).


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I just want to note that virgin girls can have fungal infections (yeast) or bacterial vaginosis. If your partner(s) have a yeast infection and you have unprotected sex,  you are at risk for contracting the fungal infection that can turn into urethritis if left untreated, This is a very painful inflammation of your urethra. I am not saying that this is a possibility THIS time, but do keep this in mind in the future and never forget to wear a condom until you are in a committed relationship and ready to settle down to start a family.

Good luck hun
~VQ
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Even though she was a virgin, you should have used a condom to prevent an unplanned pregnancy.
This is not uncommon the first time for a woman. Either there may be no blood, some or a lot.
I would recommend of course using a condom and getting some lubrication from your local pharmacy. This will make things much easier the next time for both of you.  
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