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how to prevent pregnancy

hi friends. Am 23 yr old guy from India. My girl friend and I are planning to have sex without protection. We are planning to take I PILL. Is it really efficient to prevent pregnancy? Even if she gets pregnant , can abortion be done after 1 or 2 months of pregnancy? We really dont like condoms. Kindly suggest us required precautions with which we can have sex freely. Can regular birth control pills be used for only 1 time?/            May GOD bless all people who are doing a wonderful service to the needed. Thanks. Bye
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for about 2 years, we do sex using withdrawal,and don't get pregnant, is that right that i would wash after sex, to prevent pregnancy?
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Anytime sperm leaves your penis and winds up on, in, or near her vagina there is a possility that it could find its way inside and she could get pregnant.

Is it as likely to happen as if you had had unprotected sex? No. But it is still a possibility. A small one, but a possibility.
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hii friends , im 24 year old . ii had sex with my gf without using condom . during rubing her vagina ii got discharged on her vagina . can you guys tell me is there any possibilty that my galfriend can b prego as ii didnot enterd my penis in her vagin . ???
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sperm can survive outside of the body for up to 20 minutes in the right environment. otherwise it dies within a few minutes.
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1305762 tn?1311548999
Sperm is more or less still "good" until it dries up.

Condoms and female birth control are not 100% effectve like the poster above me said but they ARE over 95% effective when used properly.
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not all birth control thing are 100% efective even condoms are not that effective. my advice is check her if your partner is fertile or not it depends on her menstrual cycle by the way.

@mohangoodfriend you don't have to worry because there's a higher possibility that your sperm is already dead once it reaches your partners vagina.
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1 last doubt friend. If i receive a hand job from my gf and after some time she touches her vagina, is it any chance of pregnancy. How long will a sperm survive outside? May God bless all of you.
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1305762 tn?1311548999
Pregnancy occurs when sperm from your body enters her vagina and makes contact with an egg from her body. That is how pregnancy happens.

Sperm + Vagina = risk of pregnancy
No sperm in the vagina = no pregnancy

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Thanks for all your replies. I have another small doubt. If we just have oral sex like fingering, licking , she playing with my penis without inserting, what are our chances of pregnancy?? We both are free from all diseases. So can we have atleast oral sex without pregnancy fear?? Thanks in advance
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1305762 tn?1311548999
If you're going to have sex once and  then take a morning after pill afterward than yes, it should work. But that pill is not designed to be used everytime you have sex. Regular birth control pills are designed to be taken daily and like the other poster said they take time to truly take effect.

an abortion can be performed in the first or second month of pregnancy in most places but again, it is NOT intended as a form of birth control.

Condoms are inexpensive, easily available, and protect you from unwanted pregnancy.
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Hi,
I think you are very scared, no worries my friend, i-pill is for an emergency situation, it should not be consumed regularly. Don't think about abortion, better plan. There are many ovulation calendars available, medhelp.org too has one, you can use this to track your GFs most fertile days and avoid sex on those days. Enjoy, all the best ;)
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you may not like condoms but it's better than risking a pregnancy and making your g/f go through an abortion. it's completely irresponsible and if you don't want to risk a pregnancy and don't want to use condoms...don't have sex.

and no regular b/c can not be used one time. it take 3-6 months for the pills to take effect. the plan b pill should only be used in case something happens. using it as a form of b/c can eventually possibly cause your g/f to become infertile.
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