i want to get rid of my sex drive

[caoscontroller]

I think my sex drive is distroying my relationship with my wife. Im 23 years old and i want to have sex all the time, but only with my wife. The problem is her life is so busy she hardly has any time for me and when we do spend time together all i want to do is make love and all she wants to do is sleep. When she falls asleep on me i get really frustrated and we start fighting. There for all the fights we get into are my falt. I dont want to lose my wife. I'd rather never have sex agen. I've got to get rid of my sex drive befor my life falls apart. The next thhing is i don't have incurance so i cant get any meds. Please help me i dont know what to do.

[vikki567]

hey dont worry. there is nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with your wife. what i think you should do is sit down with her and really tell her how you feel. explain everything to her and i am sure she will understand. i mean how hard is it for the wife to have sex with her husband everyday lol? sex is wonderful, its not like its work or something lol. even when im tired i still want to have sex with my hubby.
so seriously communication is the key to solve this problem.
good luck to you
p.s. and please dont take any weird meds. who knows what kind of side effects they have

[bklyn0630]

there is nothing wrong with your sex drive.  you don't wanna get rid of it, you just wanna control it.

my boyfriend watches flicks and masterbates.  when he wants sex and i'm not there to give it to him, this is a way for him to relieve the tension.

maybe it will help you from wanting it so much.  let her know thats what your doing so if all of a sudden you stop asking for it, she doesn't think you getting it somewhere else. lol