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I have never had an orgasm. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and I love him to death but each and every time its fake. He was having "problems" not that long ago so our sex life died and it almost killed our relationship..well now that things are better with him Im afraid to tell him ive been faking orgasm because I dont want him to feel embarrassed and have that "problem" again every time we try to have sex. It has gotten to the point where I could go without sex because it doesnt do anything for me anyways. I just want a sex life back, we are still young we shouldnt be going through these problems. How do I get him to work with me so I can finally have an orgasm and enjoy sex again?
the lotions sound like a good idea, i could always give it a try. and yes we have tried him touching me but it doesnt seem to make a difference. I've never fully explored my own body so hopefully I can direct him in the right direction when I figure out what that direction is. I'm just afraid I'll be one of those people who will never get to experience it.
I know this is a personal question but then again you did post it here, But have you tried to orgasm with him touching you or on your own? If you have and still no luck there are specific lotions you can use and there is a diet called the Orgasm diet that is suppose to help. I would not say anything to him if he is sensitive right now until you have tried other options first.
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