Aa
married a year and barely any sex
my husband and i have sex about 1-2 times a month, and the past month not at all. this is making me feel lonely and everytime i say something to him he has a ne excuse, i am tried, i am depressed, i am tired etc...but i know he looks thought porno magazines at work, and he always turns his head when we drive by a pretty girl. he has no interst, what the helk to i do??? how do i handle this. i don't think he is cheating, but hey ya never know right...but my gut tells me he is not cheating and bored with me.
hi try some thing new in sex , like different position,attrect him with sexy clothes like this i m sure that will help.
leo
leo
Take control, put your imagination to work.
Do diferent things, things that you never done before, oral, anal, etc.
If you dont change things when it comes to sex, it will turn very boring.
Trust me, i'm a man... but a pleasure.
Everytime i have sex with my wife, she gets an orgasm, with or without toutching her self.
I love it.
Hope my advise will work for you.
Do diferent things, things that you never done before, oral, anal, etc.
If you dont change things when it comes to sex, it will turn very boring.
Trust me, i'm a man... but a pleasure.
Everytime i have sex with my wife, she gets an orgasm, with or without toutching her self.
I love it.
Hope my advise will work for you.
Keep the lines of communication open. Look at all the angles, but don't jump to conclusions. Get things out in the open without playing the blame game, for now. How do you know he looks at porno magazines at work? Have you or your husband gained weight since your marriage, causing him to feel less sexy or you less attractive? Is there too much stress or too much work or too many things in your lives that "need to be done". You both need to take the time to be close, but first find out why your husband is not interested. Only he can tell you.
I would not start following him yet. He said he is bored with you?
Talk with him, ask him if he wants to do anything kinky/dirty. Come up with some ideas on what is kinky/dirty to do. Try to make some of his fantasies come true.
I have several ideas if you want some.
If that doesn't work then you will need to have a sit down with him. Ask him what you are not doing or what has changed to make him not want to have sex with you.
Talk with him, ask him if he wants to do anything kinky/dirty. Come up with some ideas on what is kinky/dirty to do. Try to make some of his fantasies come true.
I have several ideas if you want some.
If that doesn't work then you will need to have a sit down with him. Ask him what you are not doing or what has changed to make him not want to have sex with you.
if i ask him about cheating i think he will flip. maybe i will follow him in the morning or something, or hire a pi to do it.
hi mimi ! im not sure wot to say but i think ur hubby might be fancying guyz because theres no man out there who wouldnt wanna have sex after marriage almost thrice a week minimum. the best thing u do is let him free and ask him personally if theres something of dat sort or maybe if hes interested in other girls he might be cheatin u and is afraid to tell u and obviously he would make excuse try n avoiding it everytime..... maybe he doez get his satisfaction outside......... the rest is upto u
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