Suppressing the urge to masturbate does not help as you will ejaculate in wet dreams. Circulating the urge on microcosmic orbit will get converted into mental energy thus strengthening the will power and you can stop masturbating naturally.
you said that masturbating will mess up sex once yu start if that's true n too late is there away to fix it??
Too much of anything is bad. Masterbation addiction is pretty serious stuff. When you reach orgasm you get this huge surge of release and you continuously chase that release like a drug addiction. It will also affect your sex life when you become sexually active. Majority of the sexually active males with erection issues that root from psychological reasons have had a history with excessive masterbation.
Masturbation is a natural habit. It does not do any permanent harm.You may also learn to control and transmute the sexual energy:when there is an urge, you may do deep abdominal breathing. while breathing in,visualize, that white light is emerging from perineum and reaching the crown of the head. and while exhaling visualize the white energy going down from front side back to perineum. For more details search Microcosmic orbit.If urge is not dissipated,you may masturbate,taking the following precautions;
Don't masturbate with dry hands, use lubricant.
Do not over visualize. Do not masturbate when extremely excited.keep your perineum relaxed, Do not stop breathing.Empty your bladder before you masturbate. Do not feel guilty about masturbation.
didnt mean to direct that comment at poohbear... stupid lazy me. lol
Masturbation is normal and healthy. Dont even worry that it will cause problems, like blindness...Because it doesnt.
Remember to maintain self control. Just because you CAN or want to masturbate, doesnt mean you should.
Its also not a secret. Everyone knows you do it. The more you try to hide it, the more obvious it becomes. Those stains will be everywhere.
Seriously though, its just a regular part of life. Enjoy, and dont be ashamed.
HOWEVER, it can become a problem if you masturbate on a constant schedule, and any chance you get. Dont stay inside all day wankin'. Get some fresh air and eat a healthy diet. Keep a healthy mind.
source: Me. A "semi"-Chronic masturbator.
As a 14 year old your hormones are raging so it is normal to be masturbating a lot at your age. And it is not unhealthy but normal