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Getting wet

I'm with this guy were a young couple and when it comes down to having sex I can't seem to get wet anymore and it's frustrating because I feel like he doesn't want to have sex with me because of this but when I preform oral on him I get wet but as soon as he puts it in I dry up.. When I was younger I used to get wet all the time now I don't Evan get excited or anything I don't want to have sex anymore because of this an it's putting a strain on our relationship intimacy wise.... Is there anyway for me to get wet again like I used to ?
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If you are willing to use a lubricant, I highly recommend astoglyde NOT THE GEL!

But there is actually a gland inside you that when massaged you will get extemely wet! I have found it on several girls, I believe it was to the left (from a mans kneeling view) on the side wall. It didn't arouse the girls I was with just made them really REALLY wet!

Hope you find it!:)
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That was helpfull thank you
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What to do about dryness before the menopause
A dry vagina can be lubricated easily. For additional lubrication for intercourse, use a water-soluble, starch-based lubricant (for example, KY jelly) or a vaginal moisturizer (for example, Sylk, Replens or Senselle) rather than a petroleum-based product like Vaseline, which may interfere with your natural secretions. Apart from Sylk (see Useful contacts), which is available by mail order and from some stockists, these products can all be bought from a pharmacy – you do not need a prescription. Sylk is a lubricant derived from an extract of kiwi fruit; obviously you should not use it if you are allergic to kiwi fruit. It has a non-sticky texture very similar to natural vaginal lubrication. Some lubricants damage condoms; Sylk, KY jelly, Replens and Senselle do not.

Sylk and KY jelly are used just before intercourse. Smear the product liberally over the vulval area, particularly round the opening of the vagina.

Replens and Senselle are moisturizers that you use two or three times a week. They coat the inside of the vagina with a non-hormonal moisturizer, which lasts for a day or two, so they do not have to be used immediately before intercourse. Check your hormone level.
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