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my penis is soft
i am 24 years old ...and i used to masterbate regularly....bt now a days i think dat it really reduce my sexual power...and ma penies also comes softer .....recently i get engaged wid ma girlfriend and we both want the sex....so when i first tried to push ma penis den it becomes softer...so it becomes so difficult as ma girlfrind still virgin...so it still tough @first ****....so wht should i do right now.....pls tell me....
I think that Jessjazzi has a really good point. If I understand correctly, you do not have an issue in achieving an erection. So, it doesn't sound like there is a physical problem. But, a mental block can be just as debilitating. And, the more that you stress about it, the more of a problem you are likely to have.
In order to address the pregnancy issue, you should use some form of birth control. As for the other potential issues, I suggest following the advice given for performance anxiety in this post :
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Erection-Concerns/cant-get-over-performance-anxiety/show/1393986
Finally, if I misunderstood, and you are having difficulty in obtaining an erection, even without your fiance present, you may want to see a doctor, just to confirm that there are no physical issues. This would also be a good idea, if you just want to put yourself at ease.
If all else fails, then you may want to consult with a therapist who specializes in such matters. I would suggest bringing your fiance, as well, since this is an issue that impacts both of you. It would also help if she was aware of the causes of such things, and how to help you work through them.
By the way, you are FAR from alone in this! Have a look in the Erection Concerns portion of this site. Lots of guys have a similar issue, at some point in their lives.
Best of luck!
In order to address the pregnancy issue, you should use some form of birth control. As for the other potential issues, I suggest following the advice given for performance anxiety in this post :
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Erection-Concerns/cant-get-over-performance-anxiety/show/1393986
Finally, if I misunderstood, and you are having difficulty in obtaining an erection, even without your fiance present, you may want to see a doctor, just to confirm that there are no physical issues. This would also be a good idea, if you just want to put yourself at ease.
If all else fails, then you may want to consult with a therapist who specializes in such matters. I would suggest bringing your fiance, as well, since this is an issue that impacts both of you. It would also help if she was aware of the causes of such things, and how to help you work through them.
By the way, you are FAR from alone in this! Have a look in the Erection Concerns portion of this site. Lots of guys have a similar issue, at some point in their lives.
Best of luck!
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