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not in the mood
sense I had a bladder sling 3yrs ago Ive had no desire for sex, I don't enjoy it all is there something I can do? I love my husband but don't want any intimacy
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One can enhance one's sexual energy by doing male or female deer exercise. Kegel exercise can help. Prostate massage can help man to get sexual arousal. Google prostate massage.Female can also get sexual arousal by anus massage.There are 4 types of massage. prostate abdominal,prostate perpheral anal massage, Thigh massage and internal massage.You will get the details from Google.Please note that these are taoist yoga methods.NO porno is involved. You may also do Sat-kriya or satkriya. These exercises could be included in a daily routine. In a month's time you will get the result.
Hhhmmm... I also have a very low sex drive due to medication, but I will indulge my husband here and there. Is it possible you could enjoy being close to him without being sexual? Like cuddling on the couch or giving/getting a back massage? Showering together is nice too. If these things don't work for you, you might just have to let him have a bit of porn so he can 'take care of himself'. Don't just stay away from him, though. After all, he IS your husband. At least be free with hugs, and maybe kisses. Blessings - Blu
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