I'm sorry to hear that some Drs have basically ignored you. I'm going to ask a very personal question. Do you always give him oral before intercourse? I'm asking because I'm wondering if your mouth is too acidic. Try not giving him oral first to see if that helps. Or, you could try just oral with no intercourse after. If he has a reaction to the oral, you know that's the problem, if he has a reaction to just intercourse, then that's the problem.
he has a reaction with condoms and without, its definitely not a latex reaction, its actually worse without a condom. I know go to a doctor is the best answer but as that isn't going to happen soon, I am on here looking for help. I have also asked doctors in person and pretty much go sluffed off
Hi Em like remar see a doctor together.
You say the last two times you used condoms, now was he worse after useing condoms or the same, as he could have a latex reaction, the are condoms of the karket that are free from latex, try them and see how you go if he is still reluctant to see a doctor, but tell him hes playing with your relationship and needs help fast.
Good Luck
I'm really not sure what's going on. I would recommend both of you seeing the Dr together. He may be right, he could be sensitive to you. You did try condoms though. What about trying a different kind to see if that helps?