Hi Hope, do you mean that your libido is on the low side, if so you could try some tribulus, its a herb and take around 8 weeks to get to full power and it will raise your testosterone, life your libido, and kick up your energy levels, do you think this will help you and your sex life.
Good Luck
For quick result, press mildly on 6 points on major Labia .
you may circle your finger around clitoris with mild pressure.
You may learn kegel exercise and female deer exercise. Both are good exercises for many female problems. Google these words , lerarn both exercises and do it regularly.Quality of sex will improve.If there are any medical issues, attend to them as well.Best of luck.