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do i need medication?
My boyfriend says i need medication the problem is when i want sex i get very but very upset if i don't get it i sometimes have to beg him and if he doesn't comply i get really pissed off sometimes i want to leave him just because he doesn't furfil my sexual needs...
In my opinion, you do NOT need any medication - all you need is a boyfriend who would be sexually interested in you and who would be grateful for such a girlfriend who enjoys sex. Your reactions (feeling upset, angry etc..) are reactions to sexual frustration or refusal. People react differently to sexual frustration or to the situations when they are refused or their needs are not satisfied - some people get over it easily, some people do not feel any "pain" as their sexual needs are not so intense, and other people cannot put up with this form of frustration. You are not abnormal... I wish you good luck and a lot of intense sexual pleasure:)
I'm not sure why he thinks you need medication, unless he thinks you are so hypersexual that it might be associated with bipolar disorder? If your level of desire falls within the "average range," and he might even be considered hyposexual, he might be saying that to deflect the attention from himself,
People fall all along a contiuum in their degree of sexual interest and desired frequency of sex, based on both physical and emotional needs. The type of relationship a couple have also affects sexual feeling toward the partner. For example, anger and resentment shut down desire for many people. For all of these reasons, it would be a good idea for the two of you to meet with a couple's counselor with experience in treating sexual problems, for a full evaluation of the physical, emotional. and relationship issues that might be contributing to the disparity in your levels of sexual desire.
That, of course, is if you value the relationship enough to try to work things out... If that is not the case, and you haven't had the same problem in previous relationships, you may be better off just leaving, and eventually seeking a relationship with someone with whom you are more emotionally and sexually compatible.
Best wishes...
People fall all along a contiuum in their degree of sexual interest and desired frequency of sex, based on both physical and emotional needs. The type of relationship a couple have also affects sexual feeling toward the partner. For example, anger and resentment shut down desire for many people. For all of these reasons, it would be a good idea for the two of you to meet with a couple's counselor with experience in treating sexual problems, for a full evaluation of the physical, emotional. and relationship issues that might be contributing to the disparity in your levels of sexual desire.
That, of course, is if you value the relationship enough to try to work things out... If that is not the case, and you haven't had the same problem in previous relationships, you may be better off just leaving, and eventually seeking a relationship with someone with whom you are more emotionally and sexually compatible.
Best wishes...
i dnt think u need meds.. u have a sexual addicting.. and its wrong of you to force your bf to always do things to you when he doesnt want to, if it were the other way around it could be considered rape, if a man is forcing a women to please him, and he will get to the point of breaking up if she doesnt, i think ur taking your bf for granted, OR your not ready for a relationship, u obvs care more about getting off then being in love and caring for your sig. other
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