So I want to it clear. We don't have any stds or infections and we are extramly clean when we have sex. Sometimes he's rough. And after it will swell and itch for days. My theory is the swelling causes the skin to strech and it's trying to heal. Also he gets grabby down ther and I have gotten small thin cuts all along it afterward witch hurt and itched when they started to heal. Idk....does anyone els get this?