what sex positions can make this work? and hurt less?

[luckylisa123]

Hi everyone, I have a really odd dilemma. So my boyfriend and me started getting exclusive after a long wait, and we have had sex twice and it hurt a lot. Mind you, I'm not a virgin, and the cause of pain was the shape of his mainly part. He was a downward curvature that causes pain in certain positions, it also leans to the left slightly but the downward curve hurts most. He does not have the disease that I've been reading all about when googling this problem. What should I do? What positions work, because regular doggy, missionary and riding hurt a lot.

[Harv_c]

I am surprised the doggy position hurt as well.  One might think it would hit your G-spot better.  However, it sounds like you have been all the way around the subject with no relief.  I would suggest you tell him he is just too big for you and please hold half of it back.  There are several positions where it is difficult to get full penetration.  You probably want to explore these, like missionary or you on your tummy but with his legs outside of yours.  You might also try lubricant or lubricated condoms to assist.  
Of course you know the other choices, no intercourse or find another boyfriend.

[remar]

If his penis curves downward then doggie style would hurt because it's pressing on your bladder. You might want to try being on top again but leaning back a little. This way his penis won't be pressing against your bowels. Research sexual positions to find some that might work for the two of you.I think it might be a good idea to see a Dr about this. It could be that your boyfriend may have just been born this way, or there could be another reason his penis points downward.  

[Dalubaba]

A female ca adjust herself by tilting herself so that she does not get pain. In doggy position a man can adjust in such a way that intercourse is not painful to the female. This will require adjustment form both the partener. If there is no medical problem,one can try different postures.One can allos less of thrusting and more of pressing.