yes you can get std's from anal sex. the risk is the same as with vaginal sex.
not much at all of this question is std related so I've asked the moderators to move it to a more appropriate forum.
For health reasons and associated complications I will never recommend anal sex! period.
Will anyone love to pork their hands into a drainage system, even the cleaners wear gloves.
Anus is an exit door for garbage of our body, and so many toxic and bacteria and fungi etc etc are rejected out of it. Who the hell will love to pork fingers and take a challenge of their future health. Also if the **** was earlier used in another garbage door, and then carried here to you with all germs bacteria and fungi picked from elsewhere, imagine what consequences would you have, like anal cancer etc etc So PERIOD stop thinking in that line.
Use the vaginal system which was purposefully created by the almighty!
I don't think he made any design errors ... ha ha ha
1.Yes you can get STD's from anal sex - so using a condom will be better.
Condoms also allow for more comfort for the receiver of the anal sex.
2. always ensure that your rectum is clear of any stool - you are able to buy a cleaner kit, which is a small tool that you can spray sterilized fluid into the rectum and then forcing the fluid out ensureing that the fulid is clear before proceding to anal sex.
3. I have heard that duing it on a continuous bases, can cause the anal muscel to stretch, there for causing problems with holding in a bowel movement before going to the toilet. so try and not make it a regular thing.
4.Some women find it very pleasruble, especially if it is a fantasy for both partners. Also using some toys will be nice.
I would suggest that you experiment with sexual toys, varying in size, so that you can train the muscle to relaxe while having something enter it - also a very important thing to do is to use LARGE AMOUNTS of lubricant - other wise it will be extremely painful.
at first there is pain and mabye some bleeding, but the muscle eventually gets trained to relax, so that is why using the toys before hand and increasing the size of the toy is best.
If you have any more questions you are welcome to mail me.
having had anal sex with 2 of my past girlfriends i can clarify that using a lubricant and some sort of sex toy is a good way to begin, if you encourage him to go straight in you could feel severe pain, i have also found that if the girl is ontop she can control the initial penetration to a degree she things is comfortable, you could also try "doggy style" where you lean back onto the penis due to this again giving you control,
this is not like ripping off plaster, slow and steady wins the rase in this case.
Also try keeping your vagina sexually eroused as it will relax your body, if your body is relaxed your anus will clench which will end up in a painful experience for both