super late on this, but foreplay and sexual creativity is SO important for older relationships. For me, the newness of the relationship got me wet everytime, up until we got into a "sex rut". We started doing it in other parts of the house, which got us back on track. we also gave each other head more often, took more time with foreplay as RainLover71 mentioned, candles, bubble baths, lingerie, blindfolds, light bondage, trying something brand new even once can really be the restart that you need.
I know Im pretty late on this question but I am currently 19 years old right now and having the same problem today I been with my boyfriend for two years now and out of no where I became dry like sand I just want to know; Are you ladies still having this problem? or did you figure out what was the problem? please let me now
It's probably not as uncommon as most would think.
The body requires a lot of different things too all be synced up in order to do what it does. Being aroused often requires a particular mental state as well, and it's hard to say it's simply "wanting" to be aroused.
My wife is in her 30s and has gone through a "dry spell". We used lubricants to get past it, and one day we just didn't need them any more. We couldn't pinpoint what it was, it just happened. I have male friends that have had the same issue with ED, myself included. Overthinking turned out to be a major factor in most of the guys I've talked to.
I hope your situation is better now.
im 18 and im having the same problem....i dont no what the hell to do. i just feel like something is really really wrong with me...and i just hate the look in his eyes when he place his hand down there and there is no flash flood going on.
I have the same problem and I'm 24 I haven't been able to get wet since I was 20 I hate it I feel like something is wrong with me I thought we were suppose to have a natural wetness that stays forever
My girlfriend had the same problem and I started to go down on her and she became extremely wet and then the sex was wonderful,also foreplay helped her aswell.Kissing,hugging and touching.All the best.
That's weird because it started right when I became pregnant the first time! I did terminate it, because of guilt from my mother and it made me feel like I was ruining everyones lifes,... Then after we both knew it was the wrong choice, and ended up pregnant again, so now I'm 21 weeks. But I do use lube now, it makes me feel so dirty after sex though! I hate it, and I end up sitting on the toilet for like 5 mins peeing everytime! I just wish I could get wet again like I used to!! My nd hasn't said anything about it yet, but the other night tried to stick it in without lube and I didn't stop him until it hurt so bad. It feels like he tore me! Ouchhh.
Oh and I'm only 22, this also started when I was 19.
I have this same problem! It started after I had my daughter. My bf thinks its his fault and that I'm not attracted to him anymore but that's not the case. I got so tired of being lkke this, that I asked my ob if there was sometjkng wrong with me or something I could do. He said no. It happens to women all the time, and the only suggestion he had was to use lube..
Kinda nice to find someone with the same prob as me lol.. but ***** that we don't have a cure to this problem!
No answer ???? Well this is a lot of help.