young with no sex drive

[morgo2]

hello, Im 20 years old and basically i have little or no sex drive. I have never had this problem, up until kinda recently back in June i realized that  i was constantly trying to avoid sex with my fiance. Im not on any medications, i have a normal stress level for people my age. I went to the OBGYN and they did some blood work to check my hormone levels. when the results came back the doc said that my hormones were fairly normal but one result suggested i may have cysticovarium syndrome ( something like that, if i spelled that right) but she said she wasnt really seeing that and im still have my regular monthly period. She said so im fine and let her know of any changes. But the low libido is still there i dont know whats wrong. Sometimes i feel like im aroused but im not. and its becoming a bit of downer. Im in the military and im stationed in japan so i dont really have access to a sex therapist or any other doctors. any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

[HowhowWWW]

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[longleggedfly]

Hmm... heaps of diferent things could cause a drop in libido. morgo2 I think what the doc was referring to was Polycistic Ovary Syndrome? or PCOS. An indication of this condition are higher than normal levels of free testosterone in the blood, which was probably what was evident in your blood test. This isn't enough for a diagnosis however and only after an ultrasound of your ovaries are they able to say whether you do have PCOS or not. (They actually have to be able to see the cysts). But you don't need to be worried about the blood test, as women with more testosterone tend to have a slightly higher libido anyway. How long have you and your fiance been together for? Could there be external factors in your relationship that are affecting you on a subconscious level? What is your mood like in general? Are there any problem areas in your life atm, especially arising around the time your libido went down? If everything seems physically normal, I'd say it's more likely a mental thing.

[ATroubledLady]

Hi Morgo2. Me too, have little or no sex drive at all. I am 31 this year. I have been having the problem for tpast 2 half years. was enjoying sex with my husband then suddenly, it just goes off. Initially I had thought that it was due to the cyst that was growing at my right ovary (I have since removed the right ovary1half yr ago, as the cyst was too big -- about 4 inches). However it is still the same for me. It has affected my husband's ego and performance at work, and had made him explosive and snappy at everyone around him, including me. I am actually very upset and depressed. I do not know what to do.